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#2414950 12/16/13 11:13 AM
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To "let go" does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another.

To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
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To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less, and love more.

I am not sure where I saw this, it could have been on this site. I thought it was interesting and wanted to post it here for discussion. Hopefully someone will get something out of it.


You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
subguy #2414953 12/16/13 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted By: subguy
To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.


This resonates with me the most. Past regrets does creeps up to me now and then. Effects me emotionally.

I hope one day I will be ok if past memories suddenly appears. It will be just that, memories.

BTW, great list subguy wherever you found it.


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I really like this list. Thank you very much for re-posting.

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To "let go" does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.



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