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Jack!!

Wonderful to hear from you!

You were one of the very first people to post to me and I will never forget your kindness.

Now what is this about clams and dinner? Clams? Doesn't anyone barbecue? Real meat? smile

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Hey Jack,

I'm sorry to hear what you've been through. It does sound like you're getting better.

Thinking about you,

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2013 has been a tough year for you. Sorry to hear that.

Its a good reminder that we need to be grateful for what we have each day because tomorrow will bring its own challenges.

I hope you are able to use some of your DB techniques with regard to your son. Hang in there with him


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So happy to hear that things are smoothing out for you.

Talk about a roller coaster...


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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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Sorry you feel that way!

That you for the validation Cadet smile


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Jack,
How are you doing these days?


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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job,

Not bad, thank you for asking. I got all our Christmas shopping done, Heather was very appreciative of that thought I was pretty darn awesome. : )

Physical Therapy moves along, I need some shots to alleviate the spasticity of the muscles in my legs, they tend to want to tense up when I need them to relax.

I have been using this time to get closer to my youngest boy, our oldest is out of the house, we play games together and read, and he won't let me pick on Mom. : )



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

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TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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I'm glad you continue to improve. Wow! A man after my own heart w/having the Christmas shopping done! Well done!

Jack, you've been given a gift of time, as well as reflection...use it wisely and the future will be a good one for you and your family. Take this time to create new traditions and reach out to those you've lost contact w/over the years because you were either too busy or you were focused on your work.

BTW, I'm glad to see that you are utilizing your time to get closer to your youngest son. They grow up do fast and he needs his father now more than ever.


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heh, I think you just DBed me job. : )

I am grateful, for all. Even this stupid piece of metal stuck to my ass. : )

God gives you all you can handle, and knowing that and after all I have been through, including several other very close calls with the grim reaper. I must say, God thinks I'm Batman. : )



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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