Originally Posted By: MrBond
Have you read DB or DR? There are no shortcuts to this and you must read these in order to understand the concepts we describe here. You have to do the work.


I have ordered the book and expected it to arrive this week. I don't want to come off as asking for too much. I'm just hoping for some insight from people who have experienced a similiar situation. I do feel unprepared and not knowledgeable, been through this site a bit. Just trying to understand. My wife and I have always enjoyed life together and separately with friends. Skiing, hiking, partying ect. The GAL info is hard. I feel like we both already have a life outside each other. So confused.