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subguy #2449994 05/03/14 02:49 AM
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You sound great, sg. smile

"It did not make either if us wrong or bad just unable to give each other what we wanted at this point. I wish her well."


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2450471 05/06/14 01:00 AM
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I am good Bug, thanks. It did not set me back and I hope she is okay and that I did not hurt her feelings. I however did not like the snide comments about my D and time I spend with her. We only dated 2 months, we talked about it several times and it continued, so I decided to end it. I am confident that I acted with dignity and honor towards her.

I am learning what I want and like, after 23 years of marriage it was nice to see a different style of personality. Some things I liked and some things i did not.


You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
subguy #2450533 05/06/14 01:59 PM
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If we state our needs with honesty and kindness, either the OP can accept that or not. Who knows what they're bringing to the table that guides their reaction/response.

It's my belief, that many of us got to the place we were in our R because of a lack of honesty about our true needs in a R. We so wanted to BE in a R that almost anything was acceptable.

Until it wasn't.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
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