I just wanted to stop by and say I wish everyone the best!
I haven't been here in awhile but I made some good friends since first discovering this site in approx. late 2005????
You can read my locked threads to brush up if some of you want.
In 11 days, I will be moving from AZ back to my home state of IL.
I am super excited and looking forward to it...have many friends there as well as a special someone.
My marriage ended up not working out as the ex did not want to work it out. Is he still with OW--I have no clue as he never goes anywhere and my son and I never see him on his cell phone. Unfortunately, he lives here in my son's house and has his own room. I live here in my own room. We are cordial but never stay in the same room at the same time.
Now that I look back, I have no feelings for him whatsoever, and in all honesty, he held me back a lot!!! To this day, he assumes no responsibility and does not show any interest in doing so, esp. when it comes to the kids. He still does not have a job and he is not looking for one either.
My kids are doing well...all of them. Not sure when I will see them, hopefully within the next year.
I am very happy, have moved on, and my past seems like such a blur now.
I look forward to the future and whatever is in store, I accept it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Well haven't been on here in a long time and I spot your post! Must have missed some news as I see you and your x live in your son,s house. So much changed. None of that matters now just the new life awaiting you. Just wanted to wish you all the very best for the future and may it bring you much joy and happiness. You sound in a good place.
I'm sorry things didn't work out, but your new life is waiting for you w/open arms. Travel safely and enjoy your new beginnings. Having family, friends and that special someone near you will help you heal those wounds that you have attempted to heal for a very long time.
Wishing you all of the best that life has to offer.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Hello!! I have been in IL now two weeks and I am not regretting my decision. Once I left the negativity behind, it seems as if I have been blessed beyond my expectations in so many ways.
There is light at the end of this long tunnel...and it is well worth the wait.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, I wanted to tell you how happy I am that you moved forward with your life. I know that sometimes you thought I was a real hard case, but your life was a one way street leading nowhere. I am glad that you saw that and moved on. Your XH will continue to do as he has done, and his life is going nowhere and you deserve better!
Thanks, Braveheart. I have been in my hometown for just under 3 weeks, and am supposed to hear about a job opportunity today which I interviewed for last week. Keeping my fingers crossed.
I am in contact with my kids and yes, the ex is living with my son and not working....I guess that will be his life until my son says enough is enough! As far as the other woman is concerned, nobody knows...seems to be a bigger secret now than it was when we were married. He never went anywhere,just stayed home. Very odd and I felt like I was locked in a cage living in that situation as well. I am enjoying my new life and surroundings. And I am keeping busy!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
