My question is...I went dark on my W about a week and a half ago. Would it be wise to tell her the bottom portion of this letter at this point? Or should I continue to remain dark?
My question is...I went dark on my W about a week and a half ago. Would it be wise to tell her the bottom portion of this letter at this point? Or should I continue to remain dark?
My personal thoughts are nothing you SAY is going to make any difference if she is truly having an MLC.
I would also suggest you start your own thread here. Sounds like you found my welcome post.
Hey there old friend. Did you get the peanut butter cookies I sent to the POW camp? I chilled the balls first so they would hold their shape.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
I found this thread about a 6 months after I was BD'd. 6 months later my H had an awakening and he asked me what was wrong with him. I let him read this story. (copy paste in e-mail and deleted the names)
He told me that this was very similar to what he felt. Awakening was gone about a day later. Back in full fog. Don't think he still remembers any of this if I would ask him now.
Anyway, I thought it was very helpful to understand what they are going through.
Me(45)EXH(44) M:15 T:18, S19, S16 & S16 04/19-02/20 ILYB & OW1 12/20-08/22 OW2 (+pregnant-his child) 03/22-Divorce official 06/22-08/23 Reconnecting 09/23-possible back with OW2
