THANK YOU, MaMaMo. I am not sure about how all this is going, and I am just taking one day at a time.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
new guy sounds nice..I am happy for you and life is weird I think..it just happens sometimes and for the good..u deserve it I am amazed sometimes how caring/thoughtful my BF is
My xh was always so self centered even before MLC peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Trusting, I'm very happy for you...just take it nice and slow. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if your xh starts making even more calls and dropping by. He senses a change in you and he doesn't know how to handle it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Well my daughter's graduation party is this Sat. Ex's graduation party was last weekend. Ex texting me asking me if I need help with anything????? New guy has met my kids and they think highly of him.. Ex seems curious and threatened. He has been awfully nice and continues to text me 1-2 times a day about anything. Life continues to be full of daily surprises for me. Not sure what direction this is all taking.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, One day at a time! Sounds like the new man in your life is going to be great w/your children and that's what counts right now!
As for your xh, grab a seat on the curb and watch him and his parade zoom by. I suspect he's going to drive you crazy w/kindness and be contacting you every time he has an excuse. Poor man! His loss, someone else's gain.
Have fun at the party!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Trusting, Interesting how several of us on this board have fully moved on and are making better lives for ourselves now, and have optimistic lives ahead of us.
It isn't something to crow about, of course. I am sad for X, sad that things had to be this way. I don't hate him but neither do I want to be around him. I think sometimes of what things might have been like.
But I know that for some reason, it had to be this way. And I have learned and grown from the situation. I will not be in such a situation again.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
It just goes to show you, letting go and moving on....is always the best advice. Hope all is well Trusting. MC and HNY. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
