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My M has been DBd #2249769
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Its been a few months since my last update. Since there has been a significant change in my sitch, I wanted to share with my fellow DBers.

Exactly 18 months to the day from the bomb, my W and I have agreed to reconcile our marriage. We will be signing the dismissal of the D in the next few days. I realize the road ahead will be very difficult, however I anxiously await the challenge.

I appreciate that Michele Wiener-Davis gives us the opportunity to support one another on these forums during some very difficult times. Early in my sitch, I was in contact with Leni as she was my coach. Very helpful and encouraging during my darkest hours. A BIG Thank you to her.

I also appreciate many of the members on these forums who gave me support and advice to help me navigate thru the muddy waters.

I have a lot to update and I will soon.


James 1:2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance...
Re: My M has been DBd [Re: LITB] #2249773
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Fantastic news, LITB! Warmest wishes in your new journey.

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Great news! Very happy for you!


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12
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That is great news LITB! Best wishes!


-Autumn

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Great news, LITB! I look forward to your details!


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
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Fantastic! Wishing you many happy days ahead!


Me:44, W: 39
D:16, D:14, D:11(special needs)
M:17, T:21+
Bomb:3/18/12
W contacted mediator for D:3/27/12
Separate since bomb
Mediation, signed agreement 5/17/12
No talk of D since mediation
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Well that's great, please keep us updated on this hard journey you are about to embark on. I will look forward to hearing your updates to give others hope.







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Great job LIBT


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.

John Wooden





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Outstanding! By all I have read now the real work begins. Congratulations!


BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
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Thank you everyone for the well wishes.

Starsky - you were a huge help. I saved the prayer you shared with me nearly a year ago. Big THANKS to you.

I'll try to put together the details of the last few months in the next day or so.


James 1:2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance...
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