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Our divorce was final yesterday. I felt a weird sense of peace and didn't feel sad as I thought I would.

I will journal here for a while. I have posted so much devastation I really hope to change all that. I am ready for 2011. It is going to way better than 2010.

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Luv, it was a long road but now you can finally start the new chapter of your life.

Woot woot to a new year full of new beginnings. Hope you are well! smile


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Is it weird that I'm jealous? I soooooooo want to be done with my divorce!!!!

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Originally Posted By: kml
Is it weird that I'm jealous? I soooooooo want to be done with my divorce!!!!


Hahaha. I think it's safe to say you have detached and that is always a good thing smile

How much longer for yours, Kml?


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Luv, sorry to hear it but I'm glad that it's finally over so you can continue to move forward without the stupid D hanging over your head. From now on it's about you and the kids and I just know you guys will be OK!

Enjoy the holidays and here's to a great 2011 for all of us!

(((hugs)))


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Originally Posted By: kml
Is it weird that I'm jealous? I soooooooo want to be done with my divorce!!!!


Well I'm not technically "done." We still have to settle on alimony and other stuff. He has been trying to settle out of court. It is the smart thing to do. We'll see.

Thanks for the well wishes guys.


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It makes my heart ache for you, but I am glad you are "happy" with moving on. I hope God blesses you in your new life.

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thanks verycrazy....you too Romeo

I am not "happy" with how this all turned out. I thought my marriage could be saved early on but quickly learned my ex husband had no intention.

Things are getting better. I have a couple of men who want to date me so it is starting to get interesting.

I sure am glad 2010 is almost over it was one hell of a year.

Luv


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Oh luvless,

Please, please, please take some time for yourself before you start dating again. Too many people start dating to fill up the emptiness inside when YOU must be the one to fill that hole up all by yourself. Find you again, learn to be single again, and when you come to the realization that if you remain single for the rest of your life you will be just fine....then you are ready to date!!


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adding you to my watch list so I can catch up smile


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