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How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... #2102298
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have broken down and told the returning spouse about this site?

I mean, besides Coach and Greek?

Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: Kimmie Lee] #2102319
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robx, dday, puppy dog tails, i think there are more, but i don't know.

you?

I'm hoping for me, but it doesn't look good.


The show must go on.

Me43 W44 S11 D9 M14 Together23
W blow-up 1/3/10 EA/PA? 5/10 DBomb 6/5/10 Filed 6/10/10 Separated 8/28/10
Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: DanF] #2102332
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My ex and I did not reconcile.

But, even if we had, I doubt I would have shown him this site.

Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: Kimmie Lee] #2102335
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Originally Posted By: Kimmie Lee
My ex and I did not reconcile.

But, even if we had, I doubt I would have shown him this site.
Because?

Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.
Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: Greek] #2102339
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It was tough to read Coach here...initially. I did not prefer my business put out 'there' without my consent. But. But. But, open mind, open heart...I learned/learn here, too. So all good.
Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
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D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.
Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: Kimmie Lee] #2102340
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I misread the question because it ran from the topic line into the note. Sorry. i don't know if those people actually told the returning spouse about the site.


The show must go on.

Me43 W44 S11 D9 M14 Together23
W blow-up 1/3/10 EA/PA? 5/10 DBomb 6/5/10 Filed 6/10/10 Separated 8/28/10
Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: DanF] #2102342
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Yeah.

To me, it smacks of "showing them the playbook." And we all know that's a big no-no.

Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: Kimmie Lee] #2102344
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Well, no-no, I would agree, while still "in play". But after reconciliation, isn't there some wisdom to share about how to piece? Again, not easy - we/I struggled with Coach being here. But long run, both LEARNED here.

I guess the timing is important.

What's going on?
Greek


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D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.
Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: Greek] #2102347
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My husband and I reconciled, but I will never share this site with him. We've discussed everything that happened between us and shared strategies to keep us good. However, this is my private space.

He knows I had an online support group, but he doesn't need to know the details.

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
Re: How Many Here Who Have Actually Reconciled..... [Re: SDFoundGirl] #2102699
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Yeah, jeez, what if they left again?

What are the chances DB would work again after that? I mean, what with the WAS having such razor-sharp BS detectors and all........

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