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pinhead #2101692 11/05/10 05:40 PM
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Pin, she has asked for space so give it to her! Do a 180 and quit being so chivalrous towards her and be more Clark Gable in Gone with the Wind. Although, you two remain under the same roof show her how it would feel with you gone. Be spontanous with your girls! I recently drove 100 m to go indoor parachute jumping with my two boys...I didn't plan it we just did it and that was half of the fun!

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She's getting tons of space the last week, hence the reaction.

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Originally Posted By: hurtinhartford
Okay Pin!

Then take your D's to the equestrian show on sat and leave your W and her emotional baggage home. Don't offer to take her let her groval on her own! Enjoy your life with your kids and stop walking on egg shells around her!


Wise advise.


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Originally Posted By: hurtinhartford
Okay Pin!

Then take your D's to the equestrian show on sat and leave your W and her emotional baggage home. Don't offer to take her let her groval on her own! Enjoy your life with your kids and stop walking on egg shells around her!


Wise advise.


Yep. The eggshells start to feel like broken glass after a while.


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Rings off-8/16/2010

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Pin,
I am just up the road in gretna. You can find me in the alt, look for friends of Michele Davis.

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Quote:
And NO MENTION OF SANDWICHES IN MY THREAD!

There. Got that out of my system.


Hoagies

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Muffaletta


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In many ways WAW behavior for some reason is like teenage behavior, not adult behavior. How do you get a teen to grow up while maintaining a great relationship with them?

Example:
"...I said, "Don't be rude to me like that,"..."
Apparently this is a pattern: she throws a tantrum, you say this because you feel reallyl hurt and then later she apolgizes. How can you respond differently to break this pattern without telling her what to do so that she now feels she has more "space"?

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Originally Posted By: Coach
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And NO MENTION OF SANDWICHES IN MY THREAD!

There. Got that out of my system.


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Muffaletta is delicious. Especially after diving for it.


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pookie are you saying that you are a Muff a letta diver? blush

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pookie are you saying that you are a Muff a letta diver? blush



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