When a woman (yes EVEN YOUR WIFE) likes you or loves you or cares about you, then they WANT to spend time with you. They WANT to be with you on the weekends. They do NOT go on a weekend with the gf's. They do NOT go out the next night also... They do NOT act cold.. They do NOT keep going to TK when they know there is a guy there that you don't want to be there with her...
They WANT to please you. They do NOT want you to wonder how they feel. They do NOT tell you they need time to think. They DO tell you they love you. They DO show you they love you..
When a woman likes you in the right way, they do NOT want you confused.
SO, when a man IS confused about how his woman feels, it really means that he can't face the fact and reality that she has emotionally left him.
The problem here is not her, but YOU. It is YOU who can't let go. It is YOU who can't admit that she is playing you. You just can't or don't want to admit it. You thought that you "really put your foot down" the other day when you told her to leave...
Do you really think THAT worked? IT is ACTION that will convince her. Not talk.
Take all those things about what I said about how a woman acts when she WANTS to be with you..
Then factor in that there is OM that she IS interested in..
Look how she is showing HIM how she feels. She is willing to LIE to YOU to be with him and be around him.. GET IT YET?
Picture her liking the OM and then put in what I told you about how women act when they like a man..
Will they lie to you for him? Will they go out on Friday and Saturday to be around him? Will they be cold to you?
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When a woman (yes EVEN YOUR WIFE) likes you or loves you or cares about you, then they WANT to spend time with you. They WANT to be with you on the weekends. They do NOT go on a weekend with the gf's. They do NOT go out the next night also... They do NOT act cold.. They do NOT keep going to TK when they know there is a guy there that you don't want to be there with her...
They WANT to please you. They do NOT want you to wonder how they feel. They do NOT tell you they need time to think. They DO tell you they love you. They DO show you they love you..
When a woman likes you in the right way, they do NOT want you confused.
Remember that crazy astronaut lady who had 3 kids and a husband but who drove non-stop across from Texas to Florida planning to kill the girlfriend of the astronaut man with whom she was having an online (email) emotional affair. She brought a big cup to pee in on that drive so she wouldn't have to stop that often.
She was willing to kill for that guy, drive over 1000 miles peeing in a cup, and do you think her husband was confused?
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Remember that crazy astronaut lady who had 3 kids and a husband but who drove non-stop across from Texas to Florida planning to kill the girlfriend of the astronaut man with whom she was having an online (email) emotional affair. She brought a big cup to pee in on that drive so she wouldn't have to stop that often.
She was willing to kill for that guy, drive over 1000 miles peeing in a cup, and do you think her husband was confused?
This IS how far women will go when they like you..
Learn to accept it... When a woman likes you, she won't allow you to wonder. She WANTS you to know. That is how women operate.
I know you have had a woman or women that have liked you in the past.. Think about it.. They laugh at your stupid jokes, they like what you like, they will go where you want to go.. They JUST want to be with you..
It isn't that hard to figure out. The hard thing is learning to accept it when a woman doesn't feel the right things for you. The sooner you learn that when she doesn't feel right that they do what your woman is doing , the sooner that you can start to do what wins them back.
I told her I wanted her to move out and get her own place so she can be with whoever she wanted.
That was not a Rhett Butler type of dropping the rope. Until you don't give a d---, you aren't dropping the rope.
You see, she immediately started playing you by dangling the bait. You can't drop the rope b/c you are wondering if she might R. Dropping the rope can't be a ploy to get her back. If you are going to use tactics to try and get her back, then don't call it DTR.
She knows.......she KNOWS that she has you in her hip pockett and can take you out to play with whenever she wants. Until you actually dump her, she will continue this route. She is still using you as a "if everything else fails" option.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
