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Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE brandnewday #2087153 10/09/10 07:13 PM
Joined: Aug 2010 Posts: 348 L lovehurts Member
lovehurts Member L Joined: Aug 2010 Posts: 348	Originally Posted By: brandnewday Lovehurts, It's not too late to try a different tactic. Exposure didn't work for you. Are you ready to try something else? I've started something else already. Earlier in the week I decided to end the 3rd party drop off for our S4 along with other things. I haven't been actively "exposing" for the last 6 weeks. I'm going to start a new thread "turning over a new leaf" figure that's season and situation appropriate. Hoping I get some good advice on how to keep this up. Me:38 H: 45 OW:34 S:4 Bonus S: 12 and 16 2nd M for both Together 12 yrs M: 6 EA suspected: 5/10 confirmed: 7/2/10 Separated: 8/12/10

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE fisherman #2087155 10/09/10 07:17 PM
Joined: Aug 2010 Posts: 348 L lovehurts Member
lovehurts Member L Joined: Aug 2010 Posts: 348	Originally Posted By: trapt Originally Posted By: lovehurts Now I'm faced with a situation that no one in my life wants me to fight for my marriage. I'm not so sure about that? I bet I can name a few who do. Your friends and family see you hurting, it is natural for them to want that to stop. Quote: I just want to stop working on affair busting and work on me, my son and making sure our future is good. I agree, work on what you have control over. Your situation is far from over. Thank you, Trapt! I agree - it's only just begun! Me:38 H: 45 OW:34 S:4 Bonus S: 12 and 16 2nd M for both Together 12 yrs M: 6 EA suspected: 5/10 confirmed: 7/2/10 Separated: 8/12/10

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE lovehurts #2100573 11/03/10 11:29 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday OP Member
OP brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Just saying a quick hello. It's that time of the year again....22 days til Thanksgiving. I just wanted to say that I know how hard the holiday season can be when you have a WAS. Now is the time to start planning new traditions for yourself and your children. Do something different, something you have always wanted to do but were never able to. Try out a new recipe, or invite people over to celebrate. There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE brandnewday #2100574 11/03/10 11:31 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday OP Member
OP brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	P.S. I just tried to edit my post and was not allowed to as the time supposedly had expired......5 seconds? Is this something new? There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE brandnewday #2100576 11/03/10 11:34 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	You missed the purge : ) and subsequent removal of the edit function...to likely prevent the exchange of emails and then quickly editing out the info. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE Jack_Three_Beans #2100580 11/03/10 11:42 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday OP Member
OP brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Oh boy...here we go again! There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE brandnewday #2100582 11/03/10 11:44 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	eh... its has calmed down a bit. : ) Happy upcoming Thankgiving BND, so what is YOUR new recipe? Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE brandnewday #2100593 11/04/10 12:04 AM
Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 876 R rysmom Member
rysmom Member R Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 876	Great advice for the holidays. WAS will miss the past great fun and memories. Thanks

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE Jack_Three_Beans #2100598 11/04/10 12:13 AM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 843 North Vietnam L LanceSijan Member
LanceSijan Member L Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 843 North Vietnam	Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans and subsequent removal of the edit function...to likely prevent the exchange of emails and then quickly editing out the info. Jack why are you giving away trade secrets out here in the open.

Re: MISTAKES MADE BY THE HURT SPOUSE LanceSijan #2100600 11/04/10 12:17 AM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3,481 G glamgirl Member
glamgirl Member G Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3,481	BND great advice! The holidays can be so difficult and sad. It is very important to make new memories and still have fun regardless of your situation. Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good "Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"

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