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Your past is just how you got here. How you live your life now defines who you are.


I need to write this one down somewhere.

Yes Eric, it is time you made some new memories. You deserve all the happiness in the world after what you have lived through.

Not just survived... but thrived.

Based on your track record--I know you will make it through this.

Your best is yet to come, my dear.

If you let it.


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Eric,

Wow, just wow..... you have so much to be proud of.

Thanks for leading by example. I didn't have even half of the cr*p that you had to deal with, but realize that I probably haven't yet taken a good hard look at myself.

Thanks for the honesty, you moved me to tears.

Hugs, you deserve the best that life has to offer.


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(((Eric))),

It's been in you all along. All that you've overcome to get to where you are is a testament to your strength and courage and your willingness to look deep inside yourself.

You've survived where a lesser man may have faltered and let the odds beat him down.

You're well on your way Eric, to being all that you want to be.

All the best to you!

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My friend, welcome to the world.

I knew there was a lot more to the story than you always wanted to let on.

Now I don't feel so bad for all of the wood that I threw your way, cuz you needed it to get to where you are now. And now we all know why. (Not that I ever felt really bad, but I couldn't figure out why you were so hard headed LOL).

You have come along way my friend.

And all of what you have experienced and overcome, has shaped you for this journey that you are on...

Keep steppin my friend, every day...

(((((hugs)))))



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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Originally Posted By: Cat
(((((hugs)))))


Hugs from Cat?

<snif>


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(((((hugs)))))


Hugs from Cat?

<snif>


They happen sometimes. Maybe someday you will be smart enough to figure out how to get one wink



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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Originally Posted By: cat04

They happen sometimes. Maybe someday you will be smart enough to figure out how to get one wink



LMAO !!!!!

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Mach, yes, now you have to be extra nice to Eric because I will be watching. LOL!.

True, careful whatcha say about Cat. Just sayin. Ha!

Eric, man, we New Yorkers sure are tough sons of b*tches. You had some trip, my friend. Be kind to yourself. Go easy on yourself, too.

Now the world gets to see the real Eric, the whole Eric. Lucky world.

Mach, not one single wise crack, ya hear?

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Originally Posted By: Brooklyn
Mach, yes, now you have to be extra nice to Eric because I will be watching. LOL!.




Brooky,

I can't make any promises like that....

However, I will try...

<somedays harder than others>


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You can do it, Mach. I have faith.

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