On a MAJOR positive note, we tried a different church yesterday and in Sunday School they are doing the 5 Love Languages!! How awesome is that! They also have a marriage building class on Wednesday nights which we may try to attend when soccer/t-ball practice allows.
I can feel us moving toward each other and feel a bit closer, but we still need a LOT of work.
I'm just doing my part and keeping in mind that *I cannot make him happy.* He needs to find happiness on his own, and hopefully that happiness will include our family. I know he loves me and the boys.
We just still have *issues* that need to be resolved, but I am feeling a lot better about things at this point.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
By the way, my post got kind of pushed way back & I didn't see the few responses I got & just wanted to thank those of you who posted to me.
Also, just wanted to let all of you going through the Big D Bomb, that it DOES work out sometimes.
My H was adament he wanted a D, but we worked through it.
The piecing part takes YEARS. Especially if there was an affair or past cheating.
I have forgiven my H for the cheating, but trusting again is whole other ball of wax.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
