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I wish I didn't have a conscience and could act heartless like she is doing. It's just not in my nature.....I guess I will need to change my "nature".


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Just took my son out XMAS shopping and we bought a pre lit tree for us to use. There was no way I was going to put up the tree that me and STBXW used.....too painful.


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Well, today I have my first 30 minute consultation with a lawyer. Will see how comfortable I am with him and then move forward from there.


It really sucks to have to deal with this during the holidays....it really puts a damper on all the festivities. Oh well, grin and bear it and hope that the new year brings much more happiness.

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Well, had my free 30 minute consultation with a lawyer. It went well and he seems like a good fit for me. One good thing is that one of the services that my company's payroll processor offers is a 25% discount on the retainer and the hourly rate....makes it a bit easier to stomach this whole ordeal.


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Originally Posted By: pitinmygut
my company's payroll processor offers is a 25% discount on the retainer and the hourly rate....makes it a bit easier to stomach this whole ordeal.
That's a sweet deal.


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"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac


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Merry Christmas, pimg.

(Inner) Peace,

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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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