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I know she can never do that.


(I need to clarify this -- I meant to say that I know that xW can never take my S's away from me.)


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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Hey NCB,

As a WAW posted in another thread, W will do everything in her power to make you look so horrid and wretched to make te presence of OM seem like a right fit and be 'acceptable' to everyone.

Keep learning how to 'snake handle'.

In time as I've said, your sons will come around on their own and their cries for their father will drive W insane, I'm seeing this in my own sitch, thus no it to be true. I truly believe that now the D is done and things are what they are and our kids are upset about it, XW finally got the slap in the face from reality that I had told her would come upon her some day. Sad part is, she's done so much damage, so much re-writing history and painting me as the horrid wretch of a H, I know I for one couldn't think of a way to undo.


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S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
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Ohhh, what a night.

Met up with a new friend at my favorite local bar and grill in the hometown. Had a GREAT time, some serious GAL'ing. As a fellow divorcee we obviously had lots to talk about. Conversation could have gone on all night long, thanfully it ended when it did becasue I was trash by the time I got home, lol.

All in all, good end to a great day.

Funny thing, we went out for a smoke break and low and behold ex-BIL and his little pose was standing there. Upon noting it, friend and I got a talkative about him and might have been a bit loud I guess as ex-BIL and pose disappeared rather quickly. Eh, that's alright, I'm sure just like OM in the morning he went reporting back to XW where I was and who I was with. Actually, must have because not too long after they disappeared I got a call from XW, declined it of course. EDIT- and I know it wasn't my boys becasue they would leave a message and continually call until I answer or call back.

So, life just keeps trucking on, head up high (although extremely heavy at the moment, lol) and not looking back. New friend was so adiment to say if XW came crawling back I'd take her in a heart beat. For once I was able to truly able to state my position in this now and say no, SHE has to win ME back.

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Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
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Oh! Good post! Especially the last sentence.

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Well lookie who rose from the land of the lost!


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
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Oh, that's funny...Yeah, i was walking along and munching on a hot wing and lo and behold, look what I stumbled upon: A DB board!! I will have to leave a trail of crumbs and wing legs next time I stray off so I don't get lost again.

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New friend


Hmmm, I didn't quite catch the gender of your new D'ed friend. If this person happens to be of the "female variety" then I'd say your ex-BIL certainly has something to report back to your xW. Wouldn't that be interesting, huh? LOL.

I am realizing I need to hang out more with some of my buddies (same gender, that is, to keep me sane, if ya' KWIM) -- my GAL activities have slacked off considerably this Summer. All of us DB'ers need to do that, hang out with our peers more, if we're not already. College sports are starting to crank up...


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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No NCB, this was of the 'male variety', lol. EDIT, but that should be even more intriguing to XW as she 'weeded out' all my male friends.

Anyway, I'm not sure what to post or extent I can of anything. I may be just simply paranoid, but I strongly feel a lingering conspiracy against me. XW always seems to know certain things, places I go, things I do and when and with who that don't add up. Not that I really care, but a whole different situation blew out of proportion last night when I was expecting an issue with XW. It wasnt' with her, but it felt as though she was behind it.

So, go figure, spend a couple days on cloud nine and folks have a issue, wtf, why can't I be HAPPY for once? I have to now cut back all my plans for the holiday weekend just to sit and be a mope? Well, I'm certainly not going to bow to that level, I will find some way some how to still have a good time, maybe repair my bike and hit the trails a bit. But something needs to change here, I spend months in life's crapper being told to get out and move on with life, the hell with XW, then all the sudden, the very same voices say, oh no, you can't do that, it's not good for you, wtf? crazy

I don't know, I'm back to the drawing board on restarting life, and re-evaluating my goals and steps that they can be achieved. And people are jsut going to have to realize, dday is BACK version 2.0, he grew balls and is rock'n to Twisted Sister and "Ain't gonna take it anymore".

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Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
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And people are jsut going to have to realize, dday is BACK version 2.0, he grew balls and is rock'n to Twisted Sister and "Ain't gonna take it anymore".


Better than Theory of a Deadman's Hate My Life . Although that song cracks me up!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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So how was your weekend Dylan?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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