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I hope you have a great weekend also.

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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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Thanks Jag. Enjoy the weekend!


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09

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I guess she is trying to open up about her financial issues.

Honestly, I don't want to hear it. This is what she wanted.

But I know, I need to learn to listen to her and get a line of communication open; other than email or text.


Hermano - this could be a very important moment. Could. Hard to tell from the context. She's learning the reality. So ha-ha-ha and hardee-har-har and mwah-hahaha, right? No, not so much. There are kids involved. What affects her affect them. What affect them affects you. So you have an opportunity to lead now. As @Coach says, to TCB.

Let her look down. Ask her why she looks away. Tell her, "We have to sort this out for the kids' sakes." Lead.

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What's up...I see I broke a major rule here on DB by posting my email address. Yikers.

I've got a lot to post but just don't feel like it right now.

SP - Thanks compa, I never thought about it that way.

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