Ummm.... He speaks against boundaries unless it is dealing with abuse and drugs, etc.
Just wanted to clarify because I am sure someone will be bringing that one up soon....
Honey you just hang in there, none of us would switch places with one another.
Just as you could never have handled my MLC'er, I could never have handled yours.
We all have a specific plan, ordained by God.
Perhaps Irmac needs to figure out her own situation first before bashing anyone else for theirs. If the way she posted to you is any indication of how she treats her Husband, then , well, I guess there is nothing else to say....
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
M, This is a public forum and is to be used to help others. Do not stop posting. This is your thread, your life, your situation and how you deal w/it is your business. Your experiences have been a huge help to others. Your faith has been strong and you must not allow any of us to sway you from posting.
Remember...each of us deals w/our situation in a different way. Many frowned upon the way I dealt w/my situation...but you know what? They did not walk in my shoes, live my life or paid my bills. I answer to only one other person besides myself...that is the man up above.
So, please reconsider posting...
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Please do not stop posting because of this. I have a hard time keeping up with so many here, but I do read your thread from time to time.
You do what is right for you,and if posting helps you then please continue.
All I have to say is that was way out of line, and pretty much speaks for itself. Offering helpful advice is one thing, but to jump on a person's thread and bash them for handling their sitch. to the best of their abilities and involve others no less is flat out B.S.
Please keep posting, keep your faith and keep handling things the way you choose to.
I pray you post again, and I also pray that you do not let this effect what you post.
Please keep posting, your point of view is righteous. Only you and the Lord know how do deal with your situation.The bible may say we can divorce a unfaithful spouse, but it also talks about forgiveness, forgiveness is more precious, and can heal broken hearts .
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023