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Hi Scott,
Sorry to hear the news about the big D. However, you now have the wisdom and experience to make the rest of your life so much better than the past was.

I am at the point where I actually feel a bit jealous, just wish I could hit the FF button and be done with the whole process. Alas, that can't be.

On the good side, I took my first ride on my new Easton TT wheels today. Yeehah!

Carpe Diem my friend!

SD


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I have not been on these boards in forever but something told me to come back and check tonight. You are a amazong person who I am glad to call a friend. You helped me through some very tough times. Here is to you and new beginnings.


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H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
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Hey Swashmeister,

I learned a lot from you, including that there is more than one kind of happy ending. Thanks once again!

I firmly believe that the future holds terrific things for you, and I don't doubt for a second that you'll find yourself that special, very lucky, lady friend to share it with. Enjoy it!

Rob


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lwb, SD, shoe and Rob - thank you so much for the kind words, appreciation and confidence in me. \:\)

And nice wheels SD! Rob you need a set of those! ;\)


Scott: 38
X: 39
M: 13yrs D: 12/12/08
S9, D8, S6
MLC/EA/PA
Bomb: 8/10/06 S: 01/07 Asked for D: 05/07 Mediation 07/07

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Hey Scott, Ian suggested I look you up and get an article on how to be attractive to your wife.


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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me

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hi Jeff! I think what good ol' Ian is speaking of is an article on how to be charming.

It's on http://www.briankim.net. You can find it by googling: how to be charming.

Pretty common sense stuff but an interesting read. And with Holiday Season happening....good timing too.

Enjoy and good luck.


Scott: 38
X: 39
M: 13yrs D: 12/12/08
S9, D8, S6
MLC/EA/PA
Bomb: 8/10/06 S: 01/07 Asked for D: 05/07 Mediation 07/07

"And when all's been said and done
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Thanks Swashy I will look it up

Cheers
Jeff


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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me

Summer 08 EA
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Hey Scott! Just finished reading up on you.......wow....

I am approaching 3 years on being D'd now. Seems like yesterday that it all ended. I don't regret it. All good for me for that aspect of it. OUR kids are doing good. S17 is strong with everything....D15 is still tossing feelings around but is ssslllloooooowwwwwwwly understanding her mom....but she will have to be older to "get it".

Have a good one and Happy New Year.


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Hey Scott-

Better late than never...haven't been around much at all for the past several months. But I'd also like to chime in and say...CONGRATULATIONS. Not because you're divorced, because ultimately that wasn't your choice - it was thrust upon you.

But rather congratulations because with it having been thrust upon you, you have finally come to the end of this loooooong chapter, and can TRULY begin moving forward with the rest of your life. You handled yourself really well through it all (even when you made mistakes), so hold your head up and look forward to a lot of good sh!t.

And, I will give you a call to catch up - I've been really bad about it of late - have a great weekend buddy-

Kev


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-Confucius

"God alone decides the contest; but we must put our shoulders to the wheel."
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Anyone hear from Kman? FIB


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Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
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