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I have NO doubt!

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This will probably get deleted but I am looking into organizing a men's 'boot camp'...becoming a better man...not repeating mistakes...keeping an R fun and staying attractive...maybe in my home....run by a 'famous' motivational speaker. I'm curious what the interest would be. FIB


It won't get deleted as quickly as it would have once upon a time, I bet!

If it does - post it to the group on facebook.

FWIW I think it's a GREAT idea!

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Thanks. My followers have dwindled. The clock is ticking, FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
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Faith - I am still around - You know I do not log-in much - but you always know how to call me.

I have been thinking the same thing - I don't recognize my W anymore either... I do not understand why they change so much... The want something else and the "giver" is gone... The only thing that is left is the "taker".


Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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fib

i'm still here. I need that budget boob job.

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Better man boot camp??

I'm down with that.


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Any other takers for a weekend seminar or bootcamp?

As time moves on, it is a bittersweet pill to take--the pain of a destroyed family...the relief of having broken the limbo and seen my W's true colors. I'm OK

FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
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Originally Posted By: faithisbelieving
My W keeps calling me with 'what toys are you buying'. I told her, respectfully, that I am sure that we will not overlap and that her gifts always come from the heart and the kids love them. There was no need to keep calling about it. She seemed surprised.


Why not just tell her? Sounds controlling to me.

Or if you don't know yet, ask her what she's getting.

Everything doesn't have to be a battle, FIB.


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It's not a battle nic...she is trying to control me. I don't call her for a blow by blow toy inventory. There really is no need for the call. We don't need 'toy calls' anymore. She once tried to have me arrested.

If this puts things in perspective....her mother gave me two 8x10's of her holding our babies a long time ago. I was cleaning up my office tonite and came across them. I put them on her night table tonite. I can't look at them anymore. Biggest anti-DB'ing thing I've ever done in awhile. I don't feel bad about it...she left a handful of pix similarly on my papers a few weeks ago.

It's over and I need to clean up and move on. Once they harpoon you, at least for me, it kills something. I have no need for the wedding album, video, pix of her, etc.

(BTW..she was out 'til 3Am last night...toy phone calls??????)

FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
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Fading......FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
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