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Re: Nothing To Fear!! God is in Control. [Re: mishka422] #1663485
12/02/08 07:29 PM
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My mother use to say these men (yrs seems similar to my x)
are JUST LIKE DOGS ...they dont want the food on the plate but dont want any other dogs to have it either.

I told x that once before & he pretty much agreed smilingly.

Re: Nothing To Fear!! God is in Control. [Re: chicki] #1663530
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Hi, Kissak!

I just thought of something:
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He has been talking to woman online. Made a few friends too. Evidently has been talking to this one woman whose H just left her. Well, he texted me Tuesday night after he got the kids. He asked "Do you believe in Honesty?". I of course said Yes. Then he goes on to say "would you be mad if I took the kids to go and see a friend in town? SHe is just a friend". Well, I asked who was she? THen he calls me. Said she was just a friend. Nothing more. There was NO chance of them dating, she just needed someone to talk to.


And now he's checking up on you, may be suspecting you of dating online? Typical projection,IMHO. He feels guilty, he probably WAS thinking about dating her, so he's attributing his thoughts to you. Just my 2 cents.


I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Re: Nothing To Fear!! God is in Control. [Re: stella_k] #1663540
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Kissak,

Your sitch is very interesting. Your Ml'er is very curious about you. He is doing a lot of thinking and pondering it seems.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

Re: Nothing To Fear!! God is in Control. [Re: TRUSTING] #1663882
12/03/08 01:06 AM
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You know Trusting....the other day I looked at his my spac page and it said "x is always thinking and wondering".

How funny is that? I do think I agree with you. I think his way of thinking is that if he's doing it, I must be too. I did have a profile on one of those personal sites, well still do, but it shows people that look at your profile. My H looks at it every now and then. I only keep it so he can look....lol.

AND I do have a very weird H. More so than I use too.

Last edited by kissak; 12/03/08 01:09 AM.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10
Re: Nothing To Fear!! God is in Control. [Re: kissak] #1665264
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Well, My H didnt get the kids last night because he worked late...that is fine. Said he would get them tonight. Called and said he was feeling abit down and wanted to know if he could just come over tomorrow night and eat supper with us and go to tkd with us instead.

I told him it was ok....but what I wanted to say was "no one was there to take them when I was feeling abit down".

Ugh. They think there so special.

Last edited by kissak; 12/04/08 04:35 AM.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10
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