(((LE)))...just offering hugs tonight. I hope you are doing okay. Praying just really does make things seem so much easier to handle. I'll say another on for all of us shortly!
Much love! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
Same... I'm off to lay in bed and read.... gosh it is good and not so good to hear what everyone else goes through...
James you said it best for all of us with kid duty (wouldn't trade it either) but now that we are doing it all on our own it makes it hard to GAL or have energy to do it... As I tell my H he is disneyland dad... comes over for the fun...
I'm adding everyone to my pray list and I'll catch up tomorrow...
good night
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
MC The time before this separation W got a tramp stamp just to dispise me, in was in another language, which stood for trouble. I didnt know until about a year later after we reconcile that trouble was what she refered to the OM at that time. I found that in a bunch of old e-mails. She then had it changed. The other day she had made the comment that she was going to get a sunflower on the back of her neck. WTH, oh well, what ever, its the childish fog of stupidity that she is in. Maybe she will decide not to.
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
LE - just checked in. Lots going on today. I know you are really POed. I think you are on the right track to get close to the kids and get shared custody. Your kids are the most important people in your life right now and they need you to be the strong dad they love. Get focused on them and you.
Don't worry any more about W. She has to answer for her own actions. You just get on with life.
Also stay away from an EA until the papers are signed. Will give you a clear mind and soul.
LOL! No I was deeply offended. I appreciate your candor when dealing with me. The world would be a better place with less BS and more honesty. That is why I am here. W and I couldn't be honest with each other that our M was a mess.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
Rainy day again today and very cold! Got bombarded with phone calls yesterday from work with problems, so shut off the ringer. Missed calls from S and texts from W. Didn't call them back last night, sure they now think I am a failure. Called W this morning and asked for S, she said he was eating breakfast, and I said for him to call me back. He never did.
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M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
LE - you have the right frame of mind... hang in there...
I would love for your insight on my thread... I'm struggling with how to handle the situation that happened last night and this morning....still no word from my H...
I'm living for me and my kids but I need him to be accountable ... when you get time hop on mine - anyone and give me thoughts
thx
I'll be off and on today checking in.
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
