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Merry Christmas, ((((((((((Jen))))))))))))

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Merry Christmas Jen and your baby girl!!!!!!

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Hi Everyone...

Merry Christmas to all of you too!

I thought as 2008 came to an end I'd drop by and fill you in on the past 3 months of my life.

September 29 is a day I wish we could relive. If only we could go back in time and change the course of that day. Of course I cannot take back a day and relive it like Bill Murrey did in Groundhog Day no matter how much I'd like to.

As you know and I won't rehash I then found out that H had left me for OW and now we know there was another OW but no one knows who she is/was so we cannot investigate that angle. We have since concluded that H was killed because of this 2nd woman (we believe her H paid for a hit but have no other proof than a psychic telling me what happened) I was very angry with him and I learned that this anger wasn't going to help me or D so I let it go and have forgiven him 100 times.

Fast forward to early November and I allowed a man whom I had known since about August to come into our lives. He never knew H but knows what happened. He has been so good to me and has shown me that he loves and values me in ways that I had forgotten.

As a result of DBing I have become a better person and I have grown so much over the past 10 months. I feel that this new relationship will be stronger because of all that I have learned from everyone of you. You have all been so kind and honest with me and I am indebted to each of you for everything.

With love,
Jen


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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Thanks for the update. You really have been an inspiration to me and an example of how strong a woman can be.

Have a great new year!


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((((((((((Jen)))))))))))))))

I'm so glad to hear that you have been able to forgive H for what occured. You have also learned so much about yourself through all of these experiences. I'm sure it's bittersweet.

Wonderful news on the new R front. Enjoy!


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((((Sigh)))) Oh Jen, you are so deserving of some good karma to come your way!!!! Happy New Year Darlin'!!!!! ;\)


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Jen -
I hope this new man treats you as the queen you are and brings you great joy.

Ellie

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