You've always been a bright light on my threads. I am so sorry for what you've had to go through. I believe, with all of my heart, that your H knew and knows now how much you love him.
You are a wonderful person, and I hope that you and your daughter are doing as well as possible.
Take care of yourself,
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I am so sorry you had to find out about H's PA at this difficult time. Whatever may have happened, it is evident that your H loved you very much and he knows how much you've always loved him. What he experienced with OW was most likely not love but some sort of fantasy.
Jen, I would like to thank you for all your support over the last several months. You were here for me right from the start. I wish you all the best in your new job and we'll keep in touch in the alternate universe.
((((((((((HUGS))))))))))
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
I don't understand why people are saying you will be missed here. There is no reason that you shouldn't continue to post here. Your thoughts and feelings are as valid as anyone else's. Your experience is different. But we need to be reminded of all the possibilities in life. You bring a perspective to this forum that no one else here has. Please don't stop posting to us. We need your thoughts.
Just a hello and to let you know that I had a 3rd session with Vernetta pending so I'll have it on Tuesday. Even if not for DBing I could use a good chat with her
Peace
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I've kind of stayed away for a bit, just to keep my head clear of the situation. You're a strong person, and although this is a very very difficult time, you will make it through it. I'm confident of that.
Sometimes it's hard to put thoughts into words. I just want you to know that I've appreciated your input and help through my struggles, and thank you for that.
God Bless you Jen.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
