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I do let him off the hook.

Like when he backs out of seeing the kids. I tell him your loss, and say bye. Today I was like oh honey. It just gets me off the phone faster.

Hate it.



But I rather have the kids to be with me, then be exposed to his NAS T Ness.

I should stop that?

Ugh

you know how he gets.

Well financially I will not let him off the hook

B/c it is CS and that is for the kids.

I called my L today. I wouldn't of before, so hey can you send half of the bottle of the good stuff?

and she was like WHAT?

"Everytime I think I am going to see the last of that weasel he messes up again".

Love her.


So she is going to investigate stuff and get back to me. So like my cousin said, H"old one chica". blech


Thank you chappy, I will listen. ICK he is gonna be a deadbeat?

good grief. hate being at work late. \:\(


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Hey Bean, hang in there and try very hard to not jump to any conclusions as of yet.

For all you know he may get another job tomorrow right?

He has obligations and you have recourse if he does not live up to them in a reasonable time frame. Your L will take care of you fosho.....


ok...back into hiding......


later....


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I understand being happy to keep the kids. As long as you are around to have them and don't have to break plans. Maybe you can say, ok, I make $8/hour to babysit ;\)

Your L sounds awesome!

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Love your thought, Donna! that's a good idea.

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Originally Posted By: Lissie
Bravey, even tho you are upset with me you posted? sigh. Thank you lovey.

WEll I dunno , I think she will just support his butt if you ask me.

I just can't see him Fing up another R. I think it will bring them closer.

I don't really care, to tell you the truth, he could marry her for all I care.

Just give a room to my kids already

sheesh

he called me today, and said I can't take the kids today (eyeroll)

But i said Ok honey, you do what you have to do to get yourself together ok.

and bye

EVER

hahahhaa preparate! You sound like my cousin

OMG come over this weekend, we(bunch of us) are going out, you have the kids? ok call me


Lissie, I am not upset with you, I am afraid that you suffer from the same problem all females have, psychosis! At any rate, looking at your thread, I remembered some things that you had told me back in time, particularly about your EX job. I find it very strange that he was suddenly fired, especally from the place that he works. People are rarely fired from something like that, sounds like there could be a lot more to it than meets the eye. As far as what his G.F. will do, well, you might be suprised. He might loose a lot of his appeal without the big salary that he made. I guess time will tell, I think you have the correct attitude about it though, who cares! I do think that things are going to go south for Javier, it will be very tough right now to get another position like he had, things are super tight right now. I doubt very seriously that anyone will hire him in that field that he was in, since it is so very unusual to get fired, no one will want to risk it. To put it all in a nutshell, I wouldn't be suprised if he isn't left all alone in the next little bit. I might be very wrong, but I just have that hunch.

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I am afraid that you suffer from the same problem all females have, psychosis!


Sigh

something esle to worry about ;\)

Well thanks lovey, and yeah you know he was making boo koo (sp) bucks so he said i should say.

and he has always had a wonderful work record.

And this was his new job in NYC that he was bragging about

he told me that they didn't like his work perfomance.

sigh


Thanks Ian, yeah tomorrow will be good for him to get a job.


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Oh that is a good one.

heehe
dang they make that much?

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I am afraid that you suffer from the same problem all females have, psychosis!


Sigh

something esle to worry about ;\)

Well thanks lovey, and yeah you know he was making boo koo (sp) bucks so he said i should say.

and he has always had a wonderful work record.

And this was his new job in NYC that he was bragging about

he told me that they didn't like his work perfomance.

sigh


Thanks Ian, yeah tomorrow will be good for him to get a job.




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Lissie,

I read the thread where.......well all the fuss was about and read that your Cuban, my mom is Cuban too, first generation American. And we call my daughter Lissie, two things we have in common, oh and Divorce.........hmmm, wonder what else.

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Hiya Friend.

I have a bad habit of just aying Cuban

My parents are Cuban I was born here.

My brothers were also born in Cuba.

I keep all things Cuban close to my heart, we only speak spanish to my parents and all big family gatherings, but I was born in NJ. \:\)



Lissie for your Daughter awww. My name is Lissett.

Divorce in common.

And if you love shoes, then we are probably related ;\)


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