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not give up, relax. take a break. let go


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Nope give up... I was verbally abused for 13 years, which made me become violent at times.

You know when I was dating her, I used to laugh at her when she yelled at me. I would say you are so cute when you get mad. Then it didn't become cute anymore.

You see I never reacted to her before. But then she pushed me into reaction. That is why I say none of this matters.

Ok, my head just exploded... the Violent Femmes sold out finally and let them use their song in the new movie Igor.

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my dad used to coach one of the violent femmes in football, back in the day in milwaukee


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Originally Posted By: LostPhil
Nope give up... I was verbally abused for 13 years, which made me become violent at times.



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But then she pushed me into reaction.


Phil, this is where I think you might want to consider taking some time to reflect.....

Who controls Phil?

I was thinking some more about the ADD thing, too. I used to think that I was a great multitasker. (OK, I confess, I still do!) I'm starting to think that it is a curse, I can do lots of things well enough that most people thing I'm doing great, but if I was honest about it, I could probably do all of them better if I wasn't trying to keep them all in the air at the same time. I'm not saying the same applies to you. But I would never have thought it myself until recently.

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Wasting your time, wasting your time . . .

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Yes you are, yes you are... I would be better off looking for crate 9906753.

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Perhaps, but sometimes persistence pays. If it is done politely, and I tried.

I'll go back into hiding......

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Originally Posted By: LostPhil
Nope give up... I was verbally abused for 13 years, which made me become violent at times.



Originally Posted By: LostPhil
But then she pushed me into reaction.


Phil, this is where I think you might want to consider taking some time to reflect.....

Who controls Phil?


Yeah, what he said.



Hint: the answer should be "Phil does."


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Hi Jeff, Puppy, Phoenix, hoosier, AmyC, Surpriseme

I don't mean to hijack, but my thread is nearly dead you all are over here taking care of Phil. Can someone please come take care of me for a minute? I would appreciate all the comments you care to give, and I will be happier for it. I may even go to church today to give thanks for you, please???

Thank you so much,
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Originally Posted By: LostPhil
A woman has no authority over a man, but it appears my spouse does.

Now AmyC, are you really Amy H?


Who is Amy H?

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