Do you know the 80/20 rule ? In most cases, in marriage you are only going to get eighty percent of what you need. That’s it. No more, no less. Most time eighty percent. Now here comes this woman offering twenty percent. Now twenty percent looks real good when you are not getting it. But the problem is you are going to leave the eighty percent and thinking you were getting something better, and you end up with twenty percent."
I believe this is very well said. It even helped me to see it more clearly. Thank you for sharing.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
BND, I went to visit Torito and he walked of his own accord into the 'visiting' room!!!
I rubbed and scratched his belly...he loved it...then when it came time for me to leave, he wanted to go home too....my poor lovey!
True, I doubt that ANY of our S's were thinking positively regarding our marriages. And they would never tell us outright...my H didn't...maybe it is because they want to have their cake and eat it too.
sigh.....
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Could you imagine what could happen if the cheating spouse did that BND? The gates would open upstairs alright! Wow. What a thought. That would make to much sense though.
I agree Dar...
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
