Congratulations and thank you for posting your success story. I am so happy for you that you made it.
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He is so totally like he was when we married, almost normal. It took him almost a year before I think he felt comfortable in his own skin, dealing with the guilt and embarrassment of what he did
wed!!! So great to hear from you. I am happy knowing you are HAPPY. Thank goodness for your lovely ending. I am still leg. sep. Missed hearing about you; I'm glad you returned to tell the update.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
I am thrilled for you. Take those seatbelts OFF the Rollercoaster! Make your marriage a lifelong commitment. Here's to the rest of your lives together!
Wed, I am so glad you posted this...makes me feel like there really is a chance.
Glad things are going well for you and your H. So glad to hear that he is relatively normal and your marriage survived...it has taken a long time but I'm glad you stood!
Hope the rollercoaster is over...
Hugs, Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Hi!! Do you remember me???? We were riding the coaster together 2 SHORT years ago.
I am so happy for you and your H. You deserve all the happiness in the world!!
How awesome is it to be able to look back on all that happened and know that without it you wouldn't be where you are now? I honestly wouldn't change an ounce of what happened. It was a huge learning/growing experience for both me and my H. We've been back together since August 2006. I have grown by leaps and bounds. As you mentioned, it is not easy but it is worth it!!
Congratulations to you both. All the best!
XO XO- Michelle
Me: 38 H: 39 DS: 6 DD: 3 Married 7 1/2 years - together for 10 Bomb - 12/17/05 MOW Bomb - 12/25/05 Separated and H adamantly wanted a D: 1/16/06 H moved back: 8/06
Yes, I remember all of you since we were together through our rough times, sharing our stories, our many disappointments and our good days too. I don't know if I could have made it without all of your support.
I hope everyone on this board realizes how the bonds formed here can help you through this, no matter how things end up. I am glad all you posted and I hope you all are doing well.
wed2alien
Both 49, M 23 years 3 teens April 2004- bomb, moved out April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!! Nov 2006-- Moved home May 2008- Things still getting better
I am sooooo happy for you and your H. It makes me even more certain that my M will work out. My H is still working on his issues and so am I but I do feel that we will come through. Your post gives me the boost I need to keep going.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I am happy knowing you are HAPPY. Thank goodness for your lovely ending. 
