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#1323001 01/10/08 04:41 AM
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Nothing exciting here. Took my dog to the vet on Saturday(hoodrat does not work saturdays). The usual bad mouthing of her and the X by the staff.. I just smile and nod my head. But I haver to say it does make me smile that they despise the two of them. Been dreaming alot again about those two. I always end up shouting and telling them off. Maybe I should write a letter to them to get my feelings out and then burn it. \:\/

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found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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Hi Kym-

1. Write your letter.
2. Burn it.
3. Please bring me a martini.

Kev


"Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall."
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"God alone decides the contest; but we must put our shoulders to the wheel."
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Kman #1323049 01/10/08 11:56 AM
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Kym,

Have yourself a martini as you watch the pretty colored flames, too.

Thanks,

Joe


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More importantly, Light A Million Candles
koshka #1323109 01/10/08 01:55 PM
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morning Shoe

I'm sure there is some creative visualization type thing you could do

but I say

lets scream curse words and stab voodoo dolls for awhile

and

I would like an absynthe for that please!!!
(walking on the wild side...collge friends loved it)

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sounds like I am having a fire in my fire pit this wekend.
Drinks all around.


found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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wooooot woooooot

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well just wanted to pop in and say hi. Have a job interview tomorrow for a property managment group. I dont expect to get it but it is always good practice to go on interviews. Had a great day yesterday watching football and to have my team, the New York Giants finally beat Dallas!. It was a great game. Had a friend over, made shrimp cocktails, jalapeno poppers and beer.

One thing I have been thinking about is all that I came out of the D with. I mean I was able to buy a new house, got to keep all my furniture, was able to buy a new bedroom set, window coverings, landscaping etc. On one hand I am happy to have been able to get all of this but at what price? A Divorce?... How is it that the spouse who cheats, walks away leaving the other spouse with everything. Are they that confident that the new relatonship will work out and they wont need anything? If my X's OW ever kicks him to the curb, he will have nothing but a bose stereo system and our dog. I guess I am feeling a little guilty for all that I walked away with but I also believe I deserve it.
Happy Monday everyone \:\)


found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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Well girlfriend stop feeling so guilty. What you got was purely material. What we lose (at least for a time) is part of ourself. It takes a lot of work trying to get that back.

Oh and yes, they think that everything is going to be just that easy. So the thought of what they're losing is the least of their worries! So you think that someone who can walk out on a life is really worried about who gets the couch? You deserve everythong you got!

Love,
Bethie

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thanks Bethie!


found out about affair 8/06
H moves out Nov/06
D final 8/07
X re marries OW 5/08
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Hi Kym-

Also, look at it this way - while getting all that stuff certainly doesn't balance out against the crap you were forced to go through, it's a lot better than NOT getting all that stuff...

You're doing great-

Kev


"Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall."
-Confucius

"God alone decides the contest; but we must put our shoulders to the wheel."
-Adm. D.G. Farragut

Kevin-38; XW-36
M-2.5, together 4
Bomb-1/6/07; D-6/27/07
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