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#1150047 08/01/07 11:16 PM
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They always come back...like the proverbial bad penny. LSS has decided he made the hugest mistake of his life (and between pirating and my space bar sticking I am ready to scream...sorry...side note) and he has decided that he wants me back (insert puking noise)

I had a warning that it was coming from a friend of mine who called me and told me he shaved off all his hair again (he was bald with me and tried to grow hair with the girl-child he was with) AND that he was trying to get info on me. Gross

So...he has enlisted his mother (who emailed me)and his friends (who texted me) to plead his case.

I told them he did make the biggest mistake of his life but it wasn't with me...it was in not seeking professional help for his SOCIOPATHIC DISORDER and I would appreciate it if they told him that I have moved on and am in a much better spot than I ever was when I was with him.

Ick....

He makes my skin crawl and I feel so bad for the person I was when I was with him.


I also think she dumped him for someone closer to her own age () and that he is out of money and the fact that I have a good job and a newish car is very appealing to a short on cash druggie!!!



On a different note...our South Dakota trip was a success in that there were no park rangers called to assist in finding lost children, no ejections from state parks, no small animals brought home and only missing one shoe and beach towel!!!!

Target also mixed up a roll of film so I have a roll of drunk teenagers tubing in a river (yikes) and someone has a roll of Dylan trying to pet a wild mountain goat!!!!

I finally finished the laundry and I think all the dust has been cleared from my lungs!!!

AND...we saw the corn palace!!!!!!

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Hi Fig,
I am just curious--I can't find a thread summary for you.

Tell more about circumstances?

How long did it take H to get here?

I have to say--enlisting MIL and others to contact you is, well, cowardly.


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Good reply Figgy,

Just checked my mail so you have mail back ;\)


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To my first true love Billy.

I have missed you. And thank you for your beautiful cookie love.

smoooooooooooooooooches


AND..............................

I can't believe she abducted the kids (jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepers)


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Meh,

Lissie she's flat out batsh!t crazy, but peeking out a bit now. She's pregnant and I'm done, it is what it is.

Fact is I've seen more love on the boards from you and the ladies and even some of the guys than I have seen in years, just took some time to realize it.


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billy...just emailed you....SMOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOCHES (the sloppy wet kind)

Brenton...I have a a million and four threads but Idon'tknow howtolink them all together...sorry

LSS left last Feb and had been with the OW since that Nov. (unbeknownst to me)

So that is the timeline. But he is a diagnosed sociopath...for real... ick

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fig,

Oh my goodness.
Well, seeing as "LSS" is mental, I am supposing you are moving on from this and don't want him back. No?
I hope that you feel some level of relief (right word?) that he finally saw the light, albeit too late to reconcile with you.
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Doesn't matter because he admitted it only because he needs cash!!!!

I am relieved that he doesn't know where I live!!! \:\)

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Bravo to your trip.

Keep to what your heart says, sweets!

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It's what I have been listening to for the last 18months AND
I feel ALIVE and AUTHENTIC for the first time ever!!!!

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