Seperation approaching - 11/19/22 11:55 AM
Hi
Im new here to the forum, my W recently asked me for a divorce in a span of 4 weeks it came up twice and yesterday we decided that seperation is best for now.
We have 2 children of 4 and 7. I know I was wrong for not treating her right, I showed very little affection and gave her almost no attention. I also had a OW about 5 years ago and W found out about it 2 years ago.
For 2 years she couldnt get over the OW and I also didnt help much with how I treated her. I have asked her to give ne a chance to fix this as I only realised how wrong I was when I realised im loosing her.
4 weeks ago I started making changes to our R, but it was almost as if she didnt want to accept it. I have tried and everytime she shuts me out. Last week I started with LRT and seemed to working, but yesterday I was told about the divorce again as it is starting to affect our kids.
We still staying in the same house, until the separation is finalised, then she will be moving out.
Whats starnge for me is that we never fight she say she loves me but at the same time she also say that she doesnt want to try and work things out with me.
She said that there is no OM, but it could possibly be a emotional affair that had been happning over the last couple of months.
But I will continue with LRT and 180s.
Please help as I am completely lost.
Im new here to the forum, my W recently asked me for a divorce in a span of 4 weeks it came up twice and yesterday we decided that seperation is best for now.
We have 2 children of 4 and 7. I know I was wrong for not treating her right, I showed very little affection and gave her almost no attention. I also had a OW about 5 years ago and W found out about it 2 years ago.
For 2 years she couldnt get over the OW and I also didnt help much with how I treated her. I have asked her to give ne a chance to fix this as I only realised how wrong I was when I realised im loosing her.
4 weeks ago I started making changes to our R, but it was almost as if she didnt want to accept it. I have tried and everytime she shuts me out. Last week I started with LRT and seemed to working, but yesterday I was told about the divorce again as it is starting to affect our kids.
We still staying in the same house, until the separation is finalised, then she will be moving out.
Whats starnge for me is that we never fight she say she loves me but at the same time she also say that she doesnt want to try and work things out with me.
She said that there is no OM, but it could possibly be a emotional affair that had been happning over the last couple of months.
But I will continue with LRT and 180s.
Please help as I am completely lost.