WAW wants to know when I'm leaving house!? - 02/23/10 11:46 AM
I'm at the house, she's at a friends. I talked about leaving town to go back to a city I love (NYC) after she left last week, and she wants to know
how soon? I've 'gone dark' and it's hard. I know she would love to be in the house for a month while I'm away not bouncing b/w her mom's, friends... We know we'll lose the house if we D, which she seems firm about even if it's only been two weeks. She's very stubborn.
I don't want to rush anything and I think a month or two before I go, is plenty. I have a good, stable job, but my heart is too broken to stay in this crummy midwest town I came to for HER!
Yes, I am trying to GAL, but it's so soon and devastating (I'm really sensitive), it's sometimes hard to get off the couch other than to go to work. But I have worked out, seen friends, made plans.
Going to NYC would be for ME, she could always join me later
but would have to really want to work on M. I'm afraid though if I leave we'll never get it back.
Quick update:
Separated this time for two weeks, (two years ago for a year after she had a PA, and tried to reconcile). I hadn't read DB last time we reconciled and hadn't completely forgiven.
how soon? I've 'gone dark' and it's hard. I know she would love to be in the house for a month while I'm away not bouncing b/w her mom's, friends... We know we'll lose the house if we D, which she seems firm about even if it's only been two weeks. She's very stubborn.
I don't want to rush anything and I think a month or two before I go, is plenty. I have a good, stable job, but my heart is too broken to stay in this crummy midwest town I came to for HER!
Yes, I am trying to GAL, but it's so soon and devastating (I'm really sensitive), it's sometimes hard to get off the couch other than to go to work. But I have worked out, seen friends, made plans.
Going to NYC would be for ME, she could always join me later
but would have to really want to work on M. I'm afraid though if I leave we'll never get it back.
Quick update:
Separated this time for two weeks, (two years ago for a year after she had a PA, and tried to reconcile). I hadn't read DB last time we reconciled and hadn't completely forgiven.