Am I just giving her more ammunition with 180? - 11/09/14 03:09 AM
Hi all, new to DB, I've been trying to do the 180, with WAW. We're still living in the same house and scheduled to start MC on Monday. I've been pulling back, not initiating R talk, etc. unusually (or maybe not) from many WAW, she wants to talk about our relationship a lot. She's very depressed. She had a panic attack today and said that she looked at me and felt no connection at all, said she didn't belong with me, that our marriage was a mistake other than the kids, etc. I know that I shouldnt believe what she says, and I was able to keep calm and talk her through her panic attack. Am I doing that correctly? I'm worried that my reduced communication is just reinforcing her belief that we have no connection.