The MLC continues...... - 05/25/09 01:16 AM
So I went to pick up Ross tonight from Carrie's house. My heart just about sunk as I saw a motorcycle out front and it looked like OM's bike. I thought she had finally pushed that door open and had him at her house when I picked up our son. Not the case......
It turns out that Carrie has bought herself a motorcycle. Yep, the STBX is now a biker... why not I guess...... Just never in all of our married time did she ever even mention wanting a bike... ever.
She still has not seen Tawny. She did find out about the homeschooling this past week and went off on me quite severely. She said I never even mentioned it to her, but I did.In February I told her it had to be done by March 20th and if she had any issues she needed to discuss them with Tawny's therapist. She even said to me in one text, "My point is that you didn't even tell me. I want to know why. That kind of behavior by you damages any chance I have of repairing a relationship with her."
She said several times that she had asked me about it and I said she was still at the high school. This is a bold faced lie. Carrie and I hadnt even talked about Tawny at all since that conversation in February. It kind of cracked me up, I mean what kind of parent doesn't know for 3 months that her kid is in home school. It basically means that she has not spoken to any of Tawny's teachers in 3 months. She has not checked with the school at all. She has not asked her daughter.
Her parents were in town this week as well. Her dad, whom I used to refer to as my dad, treated me like a leper. He was very cold and distant. Her mom I never even saw. Even when I picked up Ross they didn't come out and say hi or anything. Carrie has them so snowed that they treat me like the bad guy. If they only knew all of the truth........
Anyway, life just keeps moving on. I can barely look at her when I do see her as she is just so absolutely disgusting to me at this point. Her failures as a mother just sicken me and her constant blaming of everything on anyone but herself is just messed up.
So, school is going well. The new job is working out just fine. The kids and I are doing great together. Just one piece of this puzzle yet to be resolved and I am hopeful that one day it to will be taken care of.
Ian
It turns out that Carrie has bought herself a motorcycle. Yep, the STBX is now a biker... why not I guess...... Just never in all of our married time did she ever even mention wanting a bike... ever.
She still has not seen Tawny. She did find out about the homeschooling this past week and went off on me quite severely. She said I never even mentioned it to her, but I did.In February I told her it had to be done by March 20th and if she had any issues she needed to discuss them with Tawny's therapist. She even said to me in one text, "My point is that you didn't even tell me. I want to know why. That kind of behavior by you damages any chance I have of repairing a relationship with her."
She said several times that she had asked me about it and I said she was still at the high school. This is a bold faced lie. Carrie and I hadnt even talked about Tawny at all since that conversation in February. It kind of cracked me up, I mean what kind of parent doesn't know for 3 months that her kid is in home school. It basically means that she has not spoken to any of Tawny's teachers in 3 months. She has not checked with the school at all. She has not asked her daughter.
Her parents were in town this week as well. Her dad, whom I used to refer to as my dad, treated me like a leper. He was very cold and distant. Her mom I never even saw. Even when I picked up Ross they didn't come out and say hi or anything. Carrie has them so snowed that they treat me like the bad guy. If they only knew all of the truth........
Anyway, life just keeps moving on. I can barely look at her when I do see her as she is just so absolutely disgusting to me at this point. Her failures as a mother just sicken me and her constant blaming of everything on anyone but herself is just messed up.
So, school is going well. The new job is working out just fine. The kids and I are doing great together. Just one piece of this puzzle yet to be resolved and I am hopeful that one day it to will be taken care of.
Ian