Listening to my 6th sense!!! - 10/12/08 12:48 AM
Hi all,
Well I have learned another lesson in how to listen to my own instints.
Not quit a month ago I met a man at work.We saw each other a couple of days a week.Talked almost everyday.He seemed to good to be true.I saw no red flags.None!! But I found myself picking up a vibe.I mistook it for just being scared of being hurt again.Everyone liked him.Even my S18.Said he was down to earth.
But I just couldn't figure out why I was not into him.I decided to give him a chance.
Well wednesday I had planned on going to my sisters after work.I called him at 8 in the morning to let him know I might not have time to call him that day.He told me to have a nice time.
Sometime around 11 at night I got the first of three phone calls.The first on I didn't answer because I was in bed.I didn't hear the call.He left me a voice mail asking me what he did to piss me off.Begging me to call him.Weird.
At five thirty I got another phone call that I didnt hear because I was in the shower.I didn't even know he called since I didn't look at my phone.He left me another voice mail.
At eight he called me again.I was at work.I was busy.It was breakfast rush hour and I couldn't pull away to answer.No voice mail.I planned on calling him on my break.
I went on break.I was having breakfast with another coworker and totally forgot to call him.I clocked back it.
At around 9ish I clock back in to work.I go to the back of the restarant.I work at McDonalds and I was going to be on the back window.I was getting my cash drawer ready.
He comes in.Asked my manager where I was.He told him I was in the back.Said he would get me in a minute.NG said NO!! I will go get her.Pushed past several of my coworkers.Walked all the way back to me.I had my back to him.I never saw him in the back.Several of the male coworkers made him go to the front counter.
I had heard the noise but didn't know what it was all about since I was counting my money.They told me what had happened and that he was waiting for me up front.
I go to the front counter and tell him he could have gotten me fired and that I would call him when I have time.I was very angry.He left.
About a hour later I go out to have my last cig.break.No sooner that I got out there he whips into the parking lot.Throws a phone card at me.Asking me to call him.I give him back the card and tell him I will call him when I calm down because I was very angry and this was making me more angry.
He asked me are you telling me you don't want to see me any more.I told him I was not going to talk to him about that at my work.
Later after work one of my coworkers walks me home since he has decided I was not safe.
I call my best friend.She comes and gets me and my D14 and S18.We go to her house.I call him from her phone which I *69 so he would have that number.I tell him I no longer want to see him.I tell him we are not compatable.He cusses a bit.And wanted to talk.I said there was nothing to talk about since I made up my mind.
I know that if he acted like that this early it would only get worse.
So my lesson on that is to listen to that small voice in my head that says somethimg isn't right.
Thats my bad luck in finding a nice man to spend time with.
Have a good weekend.And be careful who you talk to and if you have any weird feelings well don't ignore it.Its there for a reason.
Later Friends
Briget
Well I have learned another lesson in how to listen to my own instints.
Not quit a month ago I met a man at work.We saw each other a couple of days a week.Talked almost everyday.He seemed to good to be true.I saw no red flags.None!! But I found myself picking up a vibe.I mistook it for just being scared of being hurt again.Everyone liked him.Even my S18.Said he was down to earth.
But I just couldn't figure out why I was not into him.I decided to give him a chance.
Well wednesday I had planned on going to my sisters after work.I called him at 8 in the morning to let him know I might not have time to call him that day.He told me to have a nice time.
Sometime around 11 at night I got the first of three phone calls.The first on I didn't answer because I was in bed.I didn't hear the call.He left me a voice mail asking me what he did to piss me off.Begging me to call him.Weird.
At five thirty I got another phone call that I didnt hear because I was in the shower.I didn't even know he called since I didn't look at my phone.He left me another voice mail.
At eight he called me again.I was at work.I was busy.It was breakfast rush hour and I couldn't pull away to answer.No voice mail.I planned on calling him on my break.
I went on break.I was having breakfast with another coworker and totally forgot to call him.I clocked back it.
At around 9ish I clock back in to work.I go to the back of the restarant.I work at McDonalds and I was going to be on the back window.I was getting my cash drawer ready.
He comes in.Asked my manager where I was.He told him I was in the back.Said he would get me in a minute.NG said NO!! I will go get her.Pushed past several of my coworkers.Walked all the way back to me.I had my back to him.I never saw him in the back.Several of the male coworkers made him go to the front counter.
I had heard the noise but didn't know what it was all about since I was counting my money.They told me what had happened and that he was waiting for me up front.
I go to the front counter and tell him he could have gotten me fired and that I would call him when I have time.I was very angry.He left.
About a hour later I go out to have my last cig.break.No sooner that I got out there he whips into the parking lot.Throws a phone card at me.Asking me to call him.I give him back the card and tell him I will call him when I calm down because I was very angry and this was making me more angry.
He asked me are you telling me you don't want to see me any more.I told him I was not going to talk to him about that at my work.
Later after work one of my coworkers walks me home since he has decided I was not safe.
I call my best friend.She comes and gets me and my D14 and S18.We go to her house.I call him from her phone which I *69 so he would have that number.I tell him I no longer want to see him.I tell him we are not compatable.He cusses a bit.And wanted to talk.I said there was nothing to talk about since I made up my mind.
I know that if he acted like that this early it would only get worse.
So my lesson on that is to listen to that small voice in my head that says somethimg isn't right.
Thats my bad luck in finding a nice man to spend time with.
Have a good weekend.And be careful who you talk to and if you have any weird feelings well don't ignore it.Its there for a reason.
Later Friends
Briget