Hi folks - 11/27/07 04:28 AM
Yup. I've been AWOL! I just don't feel the need to be around here much. But I've heard from a few folks on the board now and again so I thought I'd pop in.
Not a whole lot to update about my life...it's soooooooooo boring but incredibly busy.
D's still in my life despite a 140-mile round trip back and forth when we're together. We've had some ups and downs but I'm finding this R so much easier than my M despite the logistics. We communicate well and I couldn't be happier for that. I cooked Thanksgiving dinner for a gang at his place and then we drove north to see my kids the day after. I had a blast cooking!! Did a 20 pound turkey and all the trimmings.
We both are still unsure if we ever want to live with someone else again LOL... but we are still pulling this off and live it day by day.
I have given up contracting and working for myself...I got a great offer from a software firm here that I accepted and start a week from today. I'm psyched. A lot of you may or may not know that I had been self-employed for a very long time and picking up contracts...I had two in Columbus that forced me to move here because I was commuting so much from the Dayton/Cinci area. All I can say is I'm thrilled not to have to be doing the constant handshaking, marketing, and contract signing over and over and over again just to keep income coming in!! The plan is right now for me to remain here in Columbus. But there is a chance, slight for now, that this company opens an office near WPAFB where I had been living previously. Their company does sell to the military so, there is a remote chance.
My kids are doing incredibly well. One will graduate in May with a bachelor in fine arts, another graduates the same month with her PhD in family communications. Another graduates in May 2009 with a BS in psychology and addictions studies. The hardest thing ever in my life is having them so far away. For me, I'm psyched when we do get together.
Me...I'm just so happy to have a week off from work. (I ended my contract immediately when I got the job offer just so I could have some "me" time LOL.)
Nearly six years out post-bomb and separation, almost five that the D was final. I never would've thought life could be this good again. No drama, no bs, just nice. Peaceful. Boring. I like it this way!!!
Not a whole lot to update about my life...it's soooooooooo boring but incredibly busy.
D's still in my life despite a 140-mile round trip back and forth when we're together. We've had some ups and downs but I'm finding this R so much easier than my M despite the logistics. We communicate well and I couldn't be happier for that. I cooked Thanksgiving dinner for a gang at his place and then we drove north to see my kids the day after. I had a blast cooking!! Did a 20 pound turkey and all the trimmings.
We both are still unsure if we ever want to live with someone else again LOL... but we are still pulling this off and live it day by day.
I have given up contracting and working for myself...I got a great offer from a software firm here that I accepted and start a week from today. I'm psyched. A lot of you may or may not know that I had been self-employed for a very long time and picking up contracts...I had two in Columbus that forced me to move here because I was commuting so much from the Dayton/Cinci area. All I can say is I'm thrilled not to have to be doing the constant handshaking, marketing, and contract signing over and over and over again just to keep income coming in!! The plan is right now for me to remain here in Columbus. But there is a chance, slight for now, that this company opens an office near WPAFB where I had been living previously. Their company does sell to the military so, there is a remote chance.
My kids are doing incredibly well. One will graduate in May with a bachelor in fine arts, another graduates the same month with her PhD in family communications. Another graduates in May 2009 with a BS in psychology and addictions studies. The hardest thing ever in my life is having them so far away. For me, I'm psyched when we do get together.
Me...I'm just so happy to have a week off from work. (I ended my contract immediately when I got the job offer just so I could have some "me" time LOL.)
Nearly six years out post-bomb and separation, almost five that the D was final. I never would've thought life could be this good again. No drama, no bs, just nice. Peaceful. Boring. I like it this way!!!