My Story - 12/23/19 07:49 PM
Hi everyone!
I’m a 38H.
W43
S8, S7
Met/Started Dating 12/2007
Engaged 03/2009
Married 01/2010
For me, started to notice real M difficulty towards end of 2017 when I moved interstate for job related training for four months.
Once back home Mar 2018, things went downhill slowly.
Stayed at my parents’ house for a few nights May 2018, went on work trip for a week, came home to sort it out - got told I was not coming back to the house.
Spent three months working on me and trying to get marriage counselling started.
After three months and on advice of Christian counsellor, moved back in. W refused to see counsellor after this.
Very slow but steady improvement. Great family holidays all over the world with W and S8, S7.
Things settled enough that 06/2019 asked if we could see a different counsellor. Fierce resistance, went to three sessions in 11/2019.
Came home from two day work trip, W gone, S8,S7 gone, and most possessions gone plus a bunch of cash. Lawyer letter the next day.
Spent two weeks begging and pleading and crying. Incredible level of cruelty directed at me.
Have ordered DR, should arrive next day or two.
Praying my butt off, trying to detach a little but finding it incredibly hard.
I suspect MLC and mental health issues, I doubt any EA/PA. I have been so kind through all of this and just keep getting hurt.
S8, S7 really struggling. Help!
I’m a 38H.
W43
S8, S7
Met/Started Dating 12/2007
Engaged 03/2009
Married 01/2010
For me, started to notice real M difficulty towards end of 2017 when I moved interstate for job related training for four months.
Once back home Mar 2018, things went downhill slowly.
Stayed at my parents’ house for a few nights May 2018, went on work trip for a week, came home to sort it out - got told I was not coming back to the house.
Spent three months working on me and trying to get marriage counselling started.
After three months and on advice of Christian counsellor, moved back in. W refused to see counsellor after this.
Very slow but steady improvement. Great family holidays all over the world with W and S8, S7.
Things settled enough that 06/2019 asked if we could see a different counsellor. Fierce resistance, went to three sessions in 11/2019.
Came home from two day work trip, W gone, S8,S7 gone, and most possessions gone plus a bunch of cash. Lawyer letter the next day.
Spent two weeks begging and pleading and crying. Incredible level of cruelty directed at me.
Have ordered DR, should arrive next day or two.
Praying my butt off, trying to detach a little but finding it incredibly hard.
I suspect MLC and mental health issues, I doubt any EA/PA. I have been so kind through all of this and just keep getting hurt.
S8, S7 really struggling. Help!