Saying Hi - 11/03/11 03:00 PM
Hi everyone, I keep in contact with some on the FB, but think of all of you every day and the new comers that come everyday to this board.
I have to admit, I was a late bloomer:) It took a lot of time to take in all the advice I was given by those of you that are on these boards for all of us each day, it's important to me that you all know I care deeply for you, and offer prayers everyday to cover your needs where ever you may be.
Newcomers do your best to get past the panic and heck yes it hurts, do your best, don't look back on how you reacted, if I was thinking the way I am now, things would've been different, but you have to let that go.
I don't have much of a relationship yet with my D that's now 16 and she's still alittle lost, but everyday, I still text and call. I chalk some of it up to her being an independent teen. I stay consistent.
My son on the other hand, I was awarded custody and without a fight or argument, from the other half or with the court, he may see his mom every couple of months. I have a great employer, I take my son to work after school he's now 13 and I know when I do look back at the relationship he and I have, it's right where God wanted he and I to be. Although pre-algebra is kicking my rear.
It's been 2 and a half years since everything broke loose, everyday is better.
I have to admit, I was a late bloomer:) It took a lot of time to take in all the advice I was given by those of you that are on these boards for all of us each day, it's important to me that you all know I care deeply for you, and offer prayers everyday to cover your needs where ever you may be.
Newcomers do your best to get past the panic and heck yes it hurts, do your best, don't look back on how you reacted, if I was thinking the way I am now, things would've been different, but you have to let that go.
I don't have much of a relationship yet with my D that's now 16 and she's still alittle lost, but everyday, I still text and call. I chalk some of it up to her being an independent teen. I stay consistent.
My son on the other hand, I was awarded custody and without a fight or argument, from the other half or with the court, he may see his mom every couple of months. I have a great employer, I take my son to work after school he's now 13 and I know when I do look back at the relationship he and I have, it's right where God wanted he and I to be. Although pre-algebra is kicking my rear.
It's been 2 and a half years since everything broke loose, everyday is better.
