divorce party favors? need some humor - 02/20/08 02:21 PM
The beginning of my D process is moving right along & I decided to put some humor into it instead of crying about and it helps me to start to embrace my new beginnings...
I heard of a website of a woman scorned by her H's affair w/ her best friend. She made a business of it.
Ever heard of a D cake? THere is an upside down wedding cake or even a cake w/ the bride on top pushing the groom as there is red blood at the bottom where the groom lies dead...
Dont get me wrong I am no longer bitter..as I am getting "use' to the idea of being a single mother of three. Been seperated for almost a year now and I really feel no difference as I had to do most of evrything by myself anyways.
So... last night I was in a real good mood, kind of a playful, joking kind. I mentioned to STBX if he heard of a D cake and he said no and just stared at me w/ a hateful look...I told him about this website that sells a wedding ring coffin!! I was laughing as I told him my girlfreinds were gonna give a D party.
Then after as I watched tv and ate dinner he said you think all this is funny, huh? UGH! I didnt respond as I saw he was kinda ticked off. I guess he'd be happier if I was still down and depressed??
H doesnt understand why I dont want to stay in the house for the first year until my credit improves & I can possibly buy him out. At first I thought it was a good idea, but no so much anymore.
I think it will better to start in new place where there is no memories of him. We had originally agreed his CS would be the house payment ONLY and I signed the agreement, but A L told me I can tell the judge I changed my mind and ask for alimony and his 401K. I think he recently learned just how much it will cost him and he's not so happy anymore.
He makes $30.000 more than I and even though I knew he was lying baout him making less, the truth comes out now w/ the financial affadavit. I get no CS support from him all the time we've been apart and the L tells me I really dont need an attorney.
Anyhoo........have an awesome blessed day everyone in DB world!!
I heard of a website of a woman scorned by her H's affair w/ her best friend. She made a business of it.
Ever heard of a D cake? THere is an upside down wedding cake or even a cake w/ the bride on top pushing the groom as there is red blood at the bottom where the groom lies dead...
Dont get me wrong I am no longer bitter..as I am getting "use' to the idea of being a single mother of three. Been seperated for almost a year now and I really feel no difference as I had to do most of evrything by myself anyways.
So... last night I was in a real good mood, kind of a playful, joking kind. I mentioned to STBX if he heard of a D cake and he said no and just stared at me w/ a hateful look...I told him about this website that sells a wedding ring coffin!! I was laughing as I told him my girlfreinds were gonna give a D party.
Then after as I watched tv and ate dinner he said you think all this is funny, huh? UGH! I didnt respond as I saw he was kinda ticked off. I guess he'd be happier if I was still down and depressed??
H doesnt understand why I dont want to stay in the house for the first year until my credit improves & I can possibly buy him out. At first I thought it was a good idea, but no so much anymore.
I think it will better to start in new place where there is no memories of him. We had originally agreed his CS would be the house payment ONLY and I signed the agreement, but A L told me I can tell the judge I changed my mind and ask for alimony and his 401K. I think he recently learned just how much it will cost him and he's not so happy anymore.
He makes $30.000 more than I and even though I knew he was lying baout him making less, the truth comes out now w/ the financial affadavit. I get no CS support from him all the time we've been apart and the L tells me I really dont need an attorney.
Anyhoo........have an awesome blessed day everyone in DB world!!