Looking for support - 01/18/20 10:54 PM
12/9/19 My husband told me he isn’t happy in our marriage. He’s interested in someone else. He wants to move on. Told me hasn’t cheated. Our sex life has been no existent for many years. I just came to terms with the some sexual trauma that happened to me when I was little. And I’d push him away instead of having sex. I’ve recently started counseling for this. In the meantime, I found he has had an affair. Now we are talking about separating so he can figure out what it is he wants. We’ve been married 20 years and together for 26. My heart is broken. I knew the sex thing had to bother him , but he never talked to me about. He just pretended he was ok with it. And now here we are. We’ve started discernment counseling. On top of it all. I think he’s going through a bit of a midlife crisis.
I found out about the affair just a little over a week ago, and keep hearing I’ll never get over it. I’ve read Divorce Remedy but still feel so lost. 😢 He’s still in the house but moved out of our bedroom, it’s so awkward right now. I don’t even know what to talk about. We have no children. He says he loves me but isn’t in love with me anymore. Says. I’m his best friend, but he doesn’t want to stay married. He’s been very wish washy. He said he wants to move out to see if he misses me and continue to work in the marriage. I’m trying to do the 180 but it’s so hard when you’re so down. Any help would be appreciated.
I found out about the affair just a little over a week ago, and keep hearing I’ll never get over it. I’ve read Divorce Remedy but still feel so lost. 😢 He’s still in the house but moved out of our bedroom, it’s so awkward right now. I don’t even know what to talk about. We have no children. He says he loves me but isn’t in love with me anymore. Says. I’m his best friend, but he doesn’t want to stay married. He’s been very wish washy. He said he wants to move out to see if he misses me and continue to work in the marriage. I’m trying to do the 180 but it’s so hard when you’re so down. Any help would be appreciated.