Letting Each Day Provide Its Own Gifts Pt7 - 01/27/19 04:50 PM
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The relationship between your S and W is for them to handle. The way you let your W in, but stayed outside...to me you are staying out of it AND respectful to both. No H would want his children to not have a relationship with their M, but those two have to work through it in their time and manner.
Regarding the D, you seem to be well detached and with seemingly "full speed ahead" from your W, you are moving on with the process. You never wanted it, but it is beyond your control to prevent AND it sounds like you've reached acceptance of that fact.
Moving forward on you own path with strength from your faith is the way for you Wlf!
Thanks for your thoughts B,
Let me tell you that I still waver between wanting a family and letting it go. I know it is out of my control. As for W and S- S told me later yesterday that his mom spoke to him but he just listened and did not respond. I made a comment just as long as you stayed respectful is what counts. He did not say anymore so I finished by saying I am always here if you need me.
Not sure what to expect - WAW can be lazy or she can be planning her next move. I'm just planning on going to mass with my S but he just told me he is feeling way to anxious to go to church. Dear God be with him !!
Anyways I off to church- My prayers are with you all!!Blessings!
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The relationship between your S and W is for them to handle. The way you let your W in, but stayed outside...to me you are staying out of it AND respectful to both. No H would want his children to not have a relationship with their M, but those two have to work through it in their time and manner.
Regarding the D, you seem to be well detached and with seemingly "full speed ahead" from your W, you are moving on with the process. You never wanted it, but it is beyond your control to prevent AND it sounds like you've reached acceptance of that fact.
Moving forward on you own path with strength from your faith is the way for you Wlf!
Thanks for your thoughts B,
Let me tell you that I still waver between wanting a family and letting it go. I know it is out of my control. As for W and S- S told me later yesterday that his mom spoke to him but he just listened and did not respond. I made a comment just as long as you stayed respectful is what counts. He did not say anymore so I finished by saying I am always here if you need me.
Not sure what to expect - WAW can be lazy or she can be planning her next move. I'm just planning on going to mass with my S but he just told me he is feeling way to anxious to go to church. Dear God be with him !!
Anyways I off to church- My prayers are with you all!!Blessings!