GAL, GAL and more GAL... - 06/17/15 12:41 PM
GAL is such an important part of DBing, we thought it deserved a thread all of it's own.
Many of us find it a challenge to GAL, particularly at a low and difficult time in our lives. But if you do GAL, it can pay dividends. Not only does it provide focus OTHER than your sitch, it can lead to a whole new way of life. And a side effect of GAL is that your WAS may even notice how much more interesting you have become and feel drawn towards you again. But let's not worry about them, GAL is all about YOU!
Please use this thread to share your own GAL journey. It may help others to know what has helped you. And if you have ideas for GAL on a budget, GAL with kids and GAL at home, even better. Here's a link to an older thread on GAL:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2253924#Post2253924
And before we start - just to clarify, GAL can be anything that you find absorbing, and which helps give your life structure and meaning. GAL can range from hobbies and jobs at home to Meetup groups and sporting activites. Some DBers are more extrovert, others more introvert. It's about finding what floats your boat, improves your day and helps build YOU back up again.
Many of us find it a challenge to GAL, particularly at a low and difficult time in our lives. But if you do GAL, it can pay dividends. Not only does it provide focus OTHER than your sitch, it can lead to a whole new way of life. And a side effect of GAL is that your WAS may even notice how much more interesting you have become and feel drawn towards you again. But let's not worry about them, GAL is all about YOU!
Please use this thread to share your own GAL journey. It may help others to know what has helped you. And if you have ideas for GAL on a budget, GAL with kids and GAL at home, even better. Here's a link to an older thread on GAL:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2253924#Post2253924
And before we start - just to clarify, GAL can be anything that you find absorbing, and which helps give your life structure and meaning. GAL can range from hobbies and jobs at home to Meetup groups and sporting activites. Some DBers are more extrovert, others more introvert. It's about finding what floats your boat, improves your day and helps build YOU back up again.