So happy things worked out. Why don't you fill us in...worked out in what way? what worked? what didn't?
Last time she asked me to move out, i did and started to just try and get on with my life.. Continued going gym and just tried doing things that took my mind of the D. At this point i had given up and just wanted to forget everything.
I Got in touch with a lady friend whom i lost touch with and started doing things with her as friends. It took my mind off my W and allowed me to enjoy myself and feel appreciated.
Then W asked me to meet up as she was in the area, i was a bit reluctant because i was going to go to the gym so i told her id call back in 5-10mins with a decision. I called back and asked ehat we were going to do and if it was possible to do it another day, she offered to go nandoes and i then agreed.
We went there and i wasnt really interested on her as i was.. She picked up on it and asked why i havnt been calling her and what not. I just vaguely told her i was busy doing things and trying out new things and how i didnt want to talk about it.
I later dropped her off to her flat and she asked me to come in but said only for a little bit i said i dont mind and went in.
She tried to test me so many times by telling me that some guy spoke to her and asked for her number and she said no shes married and he turned back and said cant we be friends and she gave it. I was ok thats nice. Seems aa though you have still got it then. She then broke into tears after 5 mins and said how i dont give [censored] about her or anything any more.
I remained silent and let her speak.. I then told her that i just wanted to get on with my life how i was tired chasing and chasing and how this is something she wanted. I told her i was happy and moving out wasnt bad as i thought it was actually good.
I then told her i had to go and said by.. I didnt kiss or hug and waited to see id she wld offer but she didnt.. She later brought this up
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I carried on seeing my friend and went out to milkshake places and what not.. Spoke on the phone qiite a bit as well like everyday.
*****I will continue this later im at work and cant carry on at the moment.