Mediation and the realization........PartV - 12/20/13 05:38 PM
Bomb #2 dropped last night in mediation........
But first, a link to chapter 4
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2391725#Post2391725
I realized last night that my X is too far gone.
How do I know this?
She actually said the following- and it is now documented
"If either I move away or you move away you can have 100% CUSTODY (not just primary residency)of D4"
WHO THE FRIG DOES THAT???????????????????????????????????
She just wants out. She gave me everything and will have to pay me significant Child support.
Why is she doing this? I believe she wants to get this wrapped up so that she blocks me from her grandmothers inheritance. She wants to be able to quit her high paying job and live a frugal life somewhere.....and start over- with her immigrants.
So my x throws away D4. WTF!
I cant praise this program,this board,and all of you enough. You provided me with the framework, the knowledge and the confidence to become an amazing person- Much better today then on my very best day before the BD!
I have prob one more mediation appt left- to discuss the transitions over the short term. Its not easy.
What hurts the most, by FAR the most painful- I dont know if D4 will ever know the amazing woman that I married and who gave birth to her.
This person sitting across from me in this small mediation room is not the type of person I like.
The Alian has abducted her brain
Its a good thing that Daddy already has his big boy pants on - thanks to all of you!
But first, a link to chapter 4
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2391725#Post2391725
I realized last night that my X is too far gone.
How do I know this?
She actually said the following- and it is now documented
"If either I move away or you move away you can have 100% CUSTODY (not just primary residency)of D4"
WHO THE FRIG DOES THAT???????????????????????????????????
She just wants out. She gave me everything and will have to pay me significant Child support.
Why is she doing this? I believe she wants to get this wrapped up so that she blocks me from her grandmothers inheritance. She wants to be able to quit her high paying job and live a frugal life somewhere.....and start over- with her immigrants.
So my x throws away D4. WTF!
I cant praise this program,this board,and all of you enough. You provided me with the framework, the knowledge and the confidence to become an amazing person- Much better today then on my very best day before the BD!
I have prob one more mediation appt left- to discuss the transitions over the short term. Its not easy.
What hurts the most, by FAR the most painful- I dont know if D4 will ever know the amazing woman that I married and who gave birth to her.
This person sitting across from me in this small mediation room is not the type of person I like.
The Alian has abducted her brain
Its a good thing that Daddy already has his big boy pants on - thanks to all of you!