Time, Space and moving forward - 05/13/13 08:14 PM
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2331366#Post2331366
I hope that link works to my old thread.
Haven't been posting much lately. I have been very busy with life, but also taking time to reflect on where my life is and how I feel about everything.
Conclusions that I have come to and have communicated them with W:
1. I am glad that this happened, as it has become a huge opportunity to grow.
2. I am happy with my life and its direction now since I have begun to realize that happiness is a choice that I make every day. I accept myself and what my life is.
3. The path of self improvement that I am on is a lifetime choice, one that I am continuing to walk.
4. At this point in time I have no desire to be with W. The future is unknown, but I live in the present. She would have to be a different person, and since she isn't a different person, I accept her for who she is. But I wouldn't choose to be with her at this time (she asked).
5. I have an amazing support group of friends and family. I am investing myself into these relationships in ways that I never have. It has been immensely rewarding.
6. I am going to continue applying the DB principles into my relationship regardless of where it goes. The work I need to do on myself with communication and learning to love another and fulfill their needs is of paramount importance.
7. Being the best me, and the best father I can be is my focus. I am at peace with the rest.
I hope that link works to my old thread.
Haven't been posting much lately. I have been very busy with life, but also taking time to reflect on where my life is and how I feel about everything.
Conclusions that I have come to and have communicated them with W:
1. I am glad that this happened, as it has become a huge opportunity to grow.
2. I am happy with my life and its direction now since I have begun to realize that happiness is a choice that I make every day. I accept myself and what my life is.
3. The path of self improvement that I am on is a lifetime choice, one that I am continuing to walk.
4. At this point in time I have no desire to be with W. The future is unknown, but I live in the present. She would have to be a different person, and since she isn't a different person, I accept her for who she is. But I wouldn't choose to be with her at this time (she asked).
5. I have an amazing support group of friends and family. I am investing myself into these relationships in ways that I never have. It has been immensely rewarding.
6. I am going to continue applying the DB principles into my relationship regardless of where it goes. The work I need to do on myself with communication and learning to love another and fulfill their needs is of paramount importance.
7. Being the best me, and the best father I can be is my focus. I am at peace with the rest.