WAS's OW wants to be my friend??? - 10/05/12 05:09 AM
This is so strange. Little history. H dropped bom 4/12 and moved out 6/5/12. I knew about OW but he didn't admit to it until 2weeks ago. Mind you, we'd been intimate a number of times and that day afterwards we got into argument. I found OW phone number by accident and called and screamed and told her everything we've done. She kind of chuckled. Actually most of the onversation later was in text form. Anyway he got very nasty I guess because I told her we slept together. She told him to go home but he didn't. They made up and knowing how fragile I am she has been supportive of my feelings cause he isn't. She offered to help me out financially, and she very well can do it. And it's funny cause he thinks I'm rolling in dough. It's so strange I know. If she wasn't sleeping with my husband I would like her.
So they went across the country for the weekend, as per what he told our son. I'm so sad here. I want him to want to come home. Anyway I made an appointment to speak with a DB Coach on Tuesday but I'm hurting morning, noon, and night. It's almost 6 months. Even the kids say move on. They don't understand. So I try to make the best of it but I'm crushed. What kind of words of wisdom can you share with me? I'm a mess every day.
So they went across the country for the weekend, as per what he told our son. I'm so sad here. I want him to want to come home. Anyway I made an appointment to speak with a DB Coach on Tuesday but I'm hurting morning, noon, and night. It's almost 6 months. Even the kids say move on. They don't understand. So I try to make the best of it but I'm crushed. What kind of words of wisdom can you share with me? I'm a mess every day.