It all makes sense now... He was cheating on me. - 07/16/12 01:21 PM
Hi everyone...
It has been a little while, but I actually found out that my husband was, in fact, having an affair. I'm pretty shocked, but I guess it kind of makes sense now.
I went to the old apartment to pick up furniture, which he knew about. I needed to use OUR old computer, and I picked it up and opened a different browser than the one he had open, so as NOT to be perceived as "snooping." The first thing that pops up is a chat with an unnamed person, in which he is telling her how "erect" he is going to be when he sees her and how much he loves her and stuff. I scroll down, and there are chats that are similar from months before we were even separated, so I guess that this has been going on for a long time.
I basically confronted him and he came home and kicked me out of the apartment. I demanded divorce papers, asap. And if he thinks I'm going to pay for any of it, he is going to be very disappointed.
I honestly no longer feel motivated to try to use divorce busting techniques... I feel good about myself right now, and I don't feel like I want him back. It does suck that he would do something like that to me, and outwardly deny it (I had suspected it and asked him directly, and he got defensive and told me it was a hurtful question), but, yeah, looking back, he really wasn't that great.
It has been a little while, but I actually found out that my husband was, in fact, having an affair. I'm pretty shocked, but I guess it kind of makes sense now.
I went to the old apartment to pick up furniture, which he knew about. I needed to use OUR old computer, and I picked it up and opened a different browser than the one he had open, so as NOT to be perceived as "snooping." The first thing that pops up is a chat with an unnamed person, in which he is telling her how "erect" he is going to be when he sees her and how much he loves her and stuff. I scroll down, and there are chats that are similar from months before we were even separated, so I guess that this has been going on for a long time.
I basically confronted him and he came home and kicked me out of the apartment. I demanded divorce papers, asap. And if he thinks I'm going to pay for any of it, he is going to be very disappointed.
I honestly no longer feel motivated to try to use divorce busting techniques... I feel good about myself right now, and I don't feel like I want him back. It does suck that he would do something like that to me, and outwardly deny it (I had suspected it and asked him directly, and he got defensive and told me it was a hurtful question), but, yeah, looking back, he really wasn't that great.