How to heal the emotions from an affair? - 07/24/11 09:30 PM
My wife is having an affair with her boss. She has said many times that she has 0 desire to make us work. We have been separated for 2 months now. She says that any romantic feelings towards me are dead now. She says they have been for about 2 or 3 months, i bet maybe longer.
I am still in love with her and just found out about the affair a few days ago by reading some text messages and then asking hr about it. I have been in hell friends!
We have 2 beautiful girls 4 1/2 and 2 and I don't need to tell anyone here what an acute pain this is emotionally.
I am still willing (crying) to have a tiny bit of hope because I think it is worth saving but it seems next to impossible! Bitter in laws (even harsh threats). My wife's career is with her Boss, it is not just a job. I am Christian and any thoughts about hope or faith are welcome. Also if you are not Christian please send any suggestions you have too please! I have not felt so alone in a long time. My good buddy is moving away for 4 years. Right now is rough!
I am literally at the end of my rope.
Any suggestions? How can I get rid of this intense and terrible pain.
One thing I am doing is only texting her so I don't hear her voice and have her send out the kids out the door so I don't see her face. It is so painful to see or hear her!
I really feel like our situation is a tragedy, truly. Now that I am wreathing and want to change it seems all too late.
I am probably rehashing what so many others have said but it makes it no less painful. Any suggestions would be so very appreciated.
Thank You,
one very sad Husband
I am still in love with her and just found out about the affair a few days ago by reading some text messages and then asking hr about it. I have been in hell friends!
We have 2 beautiful girls 4 1/2 and 2 and I don't need to tell anyone here what an acute pain this is emotionally.
I am still willing (crying) to have a tiny bit of hope because I think it is worth saving but it seems next to impossible! Bitter in laws (even harsh threats). My wife's career is with her Boss, it is not just a job. I am Christian and any thoughts about hope or faith are welcome. Also if you are not Christian please send any suggestions you have too please! I have not felt so alone in a long time. My good buddy is moving away for 4 years. Right now is rough!
I am literally at the end of my rope.
Any suggestions? How can I get rid of this intense and terrible pain.
One thing I am doing is only texting her so I don't hear her voice and have her send out the kids out the door so I don't see her face. It is so painful to see or hear her!
I really feel like our situation is a tragedy, truly. Now that I am wreathing and want to change it seems all too late.
I am probably rehashing what so many others have said but it makes it no less painful. Any suggestions would be so very appreciated.
Thank You,
one very sad Husband