When he won't comply - 09/17/09 10:56 PM
My husband had an affair 1 1/2 years ago. We have been to 2 marriage counselors with him still chatting and periodically meeting with the other women (secretly of course).
I told him to not talk or see her anymore last spring. I then put my all into the marriage only to find recent pictures of him and the other women (within the last 2 months).
This hurts and I should have known better because he has never genuinely said he was sorry and made any changes in behavior. He still keeps his cell phone locked up and out of site. He has all passwords, etc.
I don't think he has woken up and I feel like I'm done with this relationship. I don't know that he ever will.
I have asked him why he won't commit to me and of course he has to think about and will get back to me later (It's now 4 days later).
I have spelled out Commitment to him and what he needs to do or else we need to divorce.
What do you think?
I told him to not talk or see her anymore last spring. I then put my all into the marriage only to find recent pictures of him and the other women (within the last 2 months).
This hurts and I should have known better because he has never genuinely said he was sorry and made any changes in behavior. He still keeps his cell phone locked up and out of site. He has all passwords, etc.
I don't think he has woken up and I feel like I'm done with this relationship. I don't know that he ever will.
I have asked him why he won't commit to me and of course he has to think about and will get back to me later (It's now 4 days later).
I have spelled out Commitment to him and what he needs to do or else we need to divorce.
What do you think?